yes here i am again just ramblin becauseits better than blowing up inside. There are SO many things that are stepping stones in any path in any relationship. And within that relationship you tend to listen mre with your heart than anything else and u get blinded as to where exactly you need to be. If you cant be happy with yourself then how in God's green earth can u make another person happy. AS hard as it seems as hard as it is a have to step back slow down and try again. Not exactly start over because u cant erase where you have been but yeah go back to swuare one and try n rebuild IF its worth rebuilding. And when the rebuilding starts dont play the idiot n say ohh Ill wait u ntil you are ready or whatever..step up be a friend be there for the person who needs you and DO NOT Expect anymore than they can give. When they feel they are back where they need to be they will open up. Everything in life IS NOT about 2 people who think or who know they love one anothere there are many many many more factors to consider and maybe more one for one than the other but either way you have to understand and love them for that as well as everything else. When you completely love some one its loving them FOR WHO THEY ARE and loving them even more for who they are not..NEVER try to confine them change them beath them down or push them into something they need to step back from for whatever the reason may be. EvERY relationship works better if EACH person takes the time to BUILD A FRIENDSHIP and stand by that friendship no matter what road the relationship takes. And never expect more from some1 then they are ready to give. AS step back and a slow down is much better than loosing them completely. BUT its a choice you have to make withink yourself IF you can do that and be there for them no matter what....ok Im done ranting and raving I just needed to get a lot out so it seems. Thanks for your time.....
