Judge me, please!!! — Thursday, May 10, 2007
originally written on tagworld.
There's all sorts of people saying don't judge me, blah blah blah. But hey, I'm goimg with the opposite on here. Judge me, critisize me, critique me. Tell me all the things you think are wrong with me, or I could improve on. Especially if you have ideas on how I can improve.
I may not actually follow everyone's suggestions, or change due to anyone's critisisms, but atleast I will be enlightened by them. And I will have that choice to change if I want to. Where as, if I don't know, then I don't have that choice. It gives me more freedom knowing stuff I could do if I so wanted to. Honest critisism gives people freedom.
A long time ago, I had only one page. It had lots of stuff on it, and took forever to load. It froze people's computers up. Then one day, someone left me a comment saying it might be better if I made more than one page. I could still have all my stuff, but it wouldn't cause people's computers to freeze. I eventually figured out how to add more pages, and put my pictures on one page, and made a page for my blogs. Then I made other pages for different kinds of pictures, and different kinds of blogs. That person helped me by telling me something I could do better. I don't remember who that person was even. I do highly appreciate their comment though.
If you don't like something, or dissagree with something, I"d like to know it, and like to know your reasons. If nothing else, it lets me know various points of view are out there, even if I don't agree with them. It can also give me somthing toi argue with. But my arguements aren't meant as to show I"m upsett that someone left a comment. It's more just arguing to argue, or trying to more clearly understand where the logic is coming from, and if it really makes anysense. If ny thinking is flawed, you aren't doing me any favors by not letting me know. It's not being nice, to not tell me what you think.
Also remember, judging is one thing, discriminating is another. People can express their feelings and thoughts without acting negativly because of them. Or atleast some people can.
