Here is what I posted in a mumm today about a stepparent having a hard time after his stepson came back from visitation with his bioligical dad, and the child acts mean and horrible but his wife will not allow any spanking or taking away toys or any punishment at all she believes its wrong.....Here is what I posted to this mumm....( thie link is,http://www.cherrytap.com/mum.php?id=36665#) .. being a step parent does not make anyone less of a parent..they are still a PARENT...and let me be frank for just a second....if she does not believe in spanking or taking stuff away, then what DOES she believe in, her child being in jail or worse one day? Because that is just what is going to happen...... That is total BS ...so if nobody should recieve any type of punishment for anything thenwhat the hell do we have cops, and judges for...hell lets all jsut do whatever we feel like apparently there is no punishment...if she fell its wrong to punish, then what is she going to do about it..."punish you"??? She can't she feels punishment is wrong.....see what an oxymoron that is?? That makes no sense...Its takes two to raise a child.......people make me sick sometimes, they blame the parents if the chilren act like hellions,but then try to say spanking or punishment is wrong......hell we are mammals, we screw, eat, shit and sleep like other mammals, but we should not punish our children like our intinct says to do? Ok then , prepare for your child to make real good friends with "Bubba" in prison one day....oh that is if your lucky not to have to bury them at the age of 18....because they have been shot and killed due to not following rules, or maybe they joined a gang because they needed the structure and disiple a "family" is supposed to give.... Tell her to take some parenting classes....not teaching yoru child right from wrong and not giving them consequences is abuse....not disiplining your child with the love and care and patience that parents are supposed to do!!!!!!!
