Some People come into our lives to give us lessons. The bad 1 quite often come into our lives as abusers, have depression issues, had a dysfunctional childhood, emotionally unavailable. I know this sounds like half the population, but beware of the true nature of these people.There is always an issue to deal with. Ask yourself, Are you about to become caught up in the constant chaos they can and will bring into your life,
Before you step into this mess that you may wish later you could just scrape off your shoes, ask yourself, would you fix this person up with your best friend or If not, why would you date them yourself? There is always a messy complication with a huge amount of electricity to keep you in the game.Pay attention to RED FLAGS! That's our own intuition talking to us.Unfortunately with these negative people, often times we choose to ignore all the warning signs, often we might not even like this person , but we allow this lesson into our lives anyway. Yes, it makes us stronger and hopefully we learn not to repeat the same mistakes, but the Universe will continue to bring us these people until we learn.
The truth is, This negative person will always come into your life with major Karma for you to deal with. The good news is you don’t have to play. You can chose to not engage in the lesson (hopefully, because you've already learned it). If you choose to stay and play, be sure to hang on (mostly to your sanity), because this is when the roller coaster ride starts and all the games begin!
Every relationship is a mirror that helps us to learn more about ourselves. They are the most challenging and the most rewarding aspects of life. The more intimate the relationship the greater the opportunity for growth we are given. If an issue or person has an emotional “charge” to it, then you still have work to do. This mirror is the hardest to look at because it reflects the issues you have not yet finished in your life. These are the things that we are the most blind to.
Self-understanding is the entire reason for these mirrors, not to fix the other person, but to look at yourself and learn. The primary reason for most negative relationship is so you can work on your self and your karma! So with that said, the more you clear up issues for yourself, the sooner you will attract the positive relationship you are looking for.
The "Right One" are ourselves in another body. When we have reached the stage where we are capable of giving unconditional love, we then have the opportunity to reconnect with our “other half” The chances are that we meet them briefly in many lifetimes, but one or both of us are not ready for the intensity of this connection. When both halves of the whole are ready to come back together and meet they will discover that in their lifetime they have lead almost parallel lives. The events of their lives will mirror each other almost exactly. They may have come from very similar families and family dynamics. They may have had similar schooling or lack thereof. They may have crossed paths socially or lived close by to each other and never known it. They may have almost identical careers. When you find that person,You get to know each other, And will feel as if the other is reading their life script. That isn't to say You are identical people, but are perfectly complimentary to each other.
When you meet for the first time in a physical life, You recognize yourself in the other person. This will come as a deep surprise to both, but the recognition is immediate. At the same time you will feel that you have always known this person who is sitting in front of you. It is a feeling of home-coming, because you recognize your other self and feel very much that you have come home when you are with your counterpart. Be aware that the negative relationship also have a strong recognition pattern, only there will be that little voice in your head that knows the difference.
When You find your other half, You come together and become one, You are not like each other but are the mirror image of the other. You think alike, hold the same values and often your life experiences are very similar. You do not teach each other, You learn together and help each other learn the lessons that have been set before in this lifetime. When you come together you join forces and are capable of overcoming obstacles the average person could not begin to face. You are so filled with unconditional love you literally glow with it and have much to share with others.
The true meaning of which is:- follow your heart and your own course in life....but do not gain by harming anyone else. and, the implication is, that whatever we do, for good or bad, will be returned to us in time, (for good or bad) three times!
Life can be fun, easy and a challenge. Or it can just be a constant challenge. Often if we change our mind (attitude) we will change our life. The bottom line is, we are in control. If we believe we are controlled by someone, something, life, or circumstance. Yes you guessed it, we will be.
You created it, you can change it.
AND REMEMBER
What you focus on, is what you will create in your life.
Believe in your own magnificence, you CAN change your life. You are unique, powerful and utterly amazing. If you don't think you are, you just haven't found it yet.
