This was written in October of 2006. Since then, I havent talked to this girl. Should I try to contact her and talk to her now?
So last night I went to my best friends place for a Halloween party... Im not fond at all with her boyfriend, yet I try to be nice and cooperative. Purdy much, I put on a facade when I see him.
Well, he went and had called her a cunt... Right in front of me. I was taken aback and was like, "Dont EVER fucking call her that again, especially right in front of me." I was serious as a heartattack... If he would of hit her or touched her, I think I would of slit his throat with a kitchen knife, condsidering I was right by the silverware drawer. Purdy easy access if I do say myself.
Well even him being serious or just joking with her, dont do that shit right in front of me otherwise, you'll hear me...
Well my best friend just shrugged it off and was like, "You owe me a kiss for an 'Im sorry'." I was like, "I dont know why you let him get away with that shit." To me, theres a problem with that... If any guy would call me a cunt, you can bet your sweet ass he'd be eating his teeth or I'd never talk to that asshole again. Guarenteed.
Well after that shit was settled and I got my two cents in, people started arriving. I was there for the soul purpose of helping her bake cookies and junk.
Well after about 10 people showed, we whipped out Twister (yeah I know, old school hah) and he had taken her outside to tell her, "You and your friends are being too fucking loud." His words exactly by what she told me.
Well her, me and this other girl Courtney had hopped into her car and left because of him saying that.
We were all nice and shit when we got back about a half hour 45 minutes later. We walked in, quite, nothing being said. This is when it gets good, y'all.
His dad was there and said, "Y'all are finally back to have some fun!" And my bestfriend said, "No, I cant talk or say anything cause I'll be too loud." And her boyfriend said, "Shut the fuck up," to my bestfriend.
WARNING: FROM THIS POINT FORWARD, I'LL BE CURSING ALOT AND MAKING A SAILOR LOOK LIKE HE GOT A MOUTH FULL OF SUGAR!!!!
Okay so anyway...
I was like, "Hold the fuck up. You better not fucking push it asshole because I will rock your fucking world."
He was saying shit along the lines of, "If you dont like what I have to say to her, you can get the fuck out of my house."
I said, "Im welcome here just as much as everyone else because Im her friend and I was invited by her! So dont you dare think that you'll tell me what the fuck to do!"
"I'll fucking pull you out by your fucking hair, bitch! I'll slug you like a man!" Is what he said to me.
Ya know, dont fuck with me about that shit... Honestly... That shit doesnt fucking fly... But anyway.
I had said, "You wont fuckin touch me. I wont fucking lie there like her and let you touch me. I'll lay you out just like you're one of my Army friends!" I only said that because anyone whose in the Army is obviously alot tougher than a regular fat ass civlian which is what he is!
So anyway, again...
During this whole time my bestfriend was in between him and I trying to keep him from coming after me... I honestly could say that I wasnt scared because even though he has about 100 lbs and 6 or so inches on me, it doesnt matter how much you weight or what your height is, all you need is skill to take someone down. I got the training and he doesnt. I'd kick his fucking ass.
So he keeps saying, "You better get the fuck outta my house!" Blah blah blah. And my best friend was like, "She was going to leave anyway right after we got back anyway!"
And so when I was walking out, of course I had to push another spear through the steel plate and say, "_______ (insert my best friends name here), You deserve so much fucking better."
And then he had the nerve to go and say, "I'll get my little sister on you to kick your ass!"
Whoa!!!!!!! HOLD THE FUCK UP! I had to go and get my digs in again, because Im a vindictive bitch like that.
"You're little sisters fucking fat!" And I walked through the door, followed by him saying, "What the fuck did you say, bitch!?"
Now keep in mind, his little sister is all but fucking 10 and about 20 lbs over weight ALREADY! Dont go and bring your fucking family into it if you dont want them to be bashed either. You're not a fucking man if you need to go and say shit like that. Have someone, especially your little sister who had no fucking reason to be in the damn conversation, go and 'attempt' to kick ass for you or say that she will! God, do I hate those fucking types of people. You dug the dirt and made your grave and you'll fucking lay in it!
Okay anyway...
So I walk out to my car, and hop in because I didnt want to get into a fight and have to literally bash someones face in for the night then get arrested because I can damn well assure you, I would of... I would have put the mother fucker in his grave.
I look in my rear-view mirror and see my bestfriend trying to hold him back and then him throw her to the ground. He picked her back up with the help of his dad and went back inside the house.
My bestfriend stood there, sobbing in his dads arms and I get out to make sure she was fine.
She said, "Suzanne, if you're my best friend, you'd get in the car and leave now!" Over and over again...
I had this vision that he was going to come out with a fucking gun and just start shooting at me and me not being scared because in the end, at least she wouldnt be with him and she'd see what type of man he really is.
Well I told her I'd call her today and see how she was doing...
Now my question is... Should I stand by her and keep trying to shove the fact that he's an abuser, verbally and physcially (because he has left bruises on her before) and she could do so much fucking better... Or... Should I end all ties with her, hoping that she'll get the point about him and that I was right about him being a total dickhead? Hoping that she'll learn and see that being in a verbally and physcially abusive relationship will get you no where in life but potentially killed?
Im so tied between the two options... I dont want to leave her side incase she ends up in real danger with her life being in his hands, but Im sick and tired of telling her the same shit over and over (I've had MULTIPLE talks to her about him), and Im sick of defending someone who doesnt want to help themselves either.
Please give me some feed back and what YOU would do in this situation. It would be so appreciated y'all... Until next time, God bless
<3Sh0rty
