Lately I've been finding myself judging other people more then I should. I won't lie, I do judge people its part of human nature. But just last week I made a big deal about yelling at one of my friends. I think I made her feel bad, but the worst part was that I didn't care, because I felt that she had acted bad enough that she needed to feel that way.
I now believe that this was wrong. I shouldn't make people feel bad just because I don't approve of what they do. It's their life, and what I think or what I would do shouldn't have anything to do with how they lead it.
Just tonight I went to this event that my college was having about strengthening the spirit. I found it very up-lifting, and it made me think. You never know when the people that you surround yourself with won't be there. So I left this speaker thinking to myself that I need to clear things up with this one friend, but not only that I also think I need to strive to be a better person.
He was one of the most entertaining speakers I've gone and seen in a while. I was really glad that I went. He had the entire audience laughing, and I'll have to admit I was laughing pretty hard myself. I think the most entertaining part was that he poked fun at natural human habits, and shared a bunch of family stories.
Lately I haven't been myself, and I've noticed changes in the way I treat people. Sometimes it's almost as if I just don't care at all anymore. So I'm going to try and be nice to everyone, but not all the time. I mean I like teasing people, but I will try not to put people down, and I will try not to think of myself as better then others.