I have seriously been struggling over issues with my 19 year old daughter :( She told my sister yesterday she was moving out into a friends. This is not an appropriate house for her to be at. I hate the fact that I cant get her to see our points of view on this and that she is just gonna do what she wants to do. I know she has to learn and make mistakes on her own, but I dont want her going down the same road I did and it destroys me knowing that she is that close to it. I love her with all my heart and ugh!!!!