For those who know me well, and now for those who do not, I would like to give a quick "cliff notes" version of my sex life (or more to the point, NO sex life!) I am married...5 daughters and the wife has completely lost her sex drive. She realizes this and is actually starting therapy for it. However, she knows my sex drive is out of this world (an 11 on a scale of 1 to 10) and she has some guilt about not "fulfilling my needs". She hit me with the idea of me going and getting cyber and phone sex with my online friends. WHAT?!?!? Sorry, JP...I do not swing that way...even though you are quite an attractive man! LOL Anyway, some who read this may know that I have a sexual way of thinking and have been very straight forward with some comments that even make me blush...others I do not speak to in such ways (too bad for you! haha). I truly have a quandry (yes, Trace, that word comes out again). Even though I have flirted like mad with some, I have not gone over that line of really "getting into it" with anyone. I think I might have some massive quilt if I do. In addition, I think my wife is saying this only as a "quick fix" to a larger problem. So...any comments or suggestions from the crew? I mean I have already gotten some points of view from some of you, but I would like to hear more. I guess I am using you all as a support group...sorry, but it is true! haha Some of you I have been friends with for quite a while (you know who you are my ROOK friends) and others are quite new. However, my friends I truly value and respect your opinions. So please, take a moment to tell me your thoughts. Oh, and I apologize for the Blog title of "sexy thoughts"...actually I will put that name to use for real here soon with my dream sequence that happened recently. And yes, an LC friend was in it...one of my friends from the ROOK...and I blush just thinking about it! haha See ya soon with that one...and clothing is optional! woohoo!
