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Is the whole world obsessed with sex?..........yes and no....would be my answer. The decadence of anticipation that preludes the act or feeds a fantasy crosses boundaries with seamless ease. The lure of revealing your mind but not being judged is close to being irresistible. Often we talk about the "chemistry" we feel....even if we haven't "met" in the physical sense of the word.......but has anyone really stopped to understand the definition of the word? I have pondered a while about "chemistry" and am amused with the conflict in my mind about its possible definition. I have the option of being really crude and say its purely carnal......especially when we admit "we have so much chemistry between us".....does that mean that if we liberate ourselves above the social norms we live in........"i would love to sleep with you, and I know you would too". The irony of the appeal of statements like "I want to go down on you", "I want to be inside you right now", "I would love to see you cum", "I need you to #*@& my brains out", wet", "hard" "throbbing and pulsing"......admittedly statements and words like these can easily have the desired effect and send a shiver down your spine or on the flip side, repulse you beyond belief. Now is that because we have "chemistry" with some and "achemistry" (this is a word I just coined and am taking some poetic liberty with English here) with others? Then again, we are educated and sophisticated, suave and have panache so I would rather associate myself with the "other" definition of chemistry. The more palatable and classy explanation of the word. It read something like this....."We really get along well, we have common likes and dislikes, we hang out so well together, its so easy to talk to you, you are so decent".........in the same breath, that sounds more like the definition of the "ideal partner" but if that is the case, how can we have so many "ideal partners".......think about it. We hear tales about sexual liberation and the number of circles, from liberation to conservative, that sex has made. Many gurus have sermonized and sold the concept of free sex........and interestingly managed to have a lot of followers. I wonder if I could live in a world where its okay to have sex with anyone you desire without the complication of association and the complexity of the human mind. Meaningless sex could possibly be a result of some perverse motivation, always justifiable, or a result of intoxication.....I wonder if I would have sex with someone "hot" if they just rang the doorbell as I am writing this blog......would you? Its really interesting how everything really happens in an instant.......if you are truly honest with yourself and ask yourself.....all the people we have made love to or had sex with......hadn't the thought, albeit fleetingly, crossed your mind the moment you saw them? While I am far from being a pervert and yet love sex, I have to admit that "my mind asked and answered that question...subconsciously"......the moment I met everyone person I have been with. We may like to dispute this but its possible that we haven't really dwelled on it and the decision has been made in our minds without our conscious knowledge. Once we decide "yes i would love to"......I think it colours our demeanour and disposition when you are with this person. The result......like a peacock.....the social yet subtle dance of seduction begins. It has many manifestations which we commonly refer to as "caring", "kind", thoughtful", "witty", "interesting", "fun"........etc. Sex is not always on my conscious mind and nor is it a destination i send a cavalry of grey cells to scout everyday....but its kaleidoscope of dimensions is definitely intriguing.
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