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A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from. A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms. A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path. A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you. A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you. A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning. A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing. A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Master. A Person who displays sensitivity will be a Man who is sensitive to you. A Person who displays humility will be a Man who will show you respect. A Person who is not afraid to cry will be a Man who understands your tears. A Person who is quiet will be a Man who will hear your quietest whisper, A Person who knows fear will be a Man who will not leave you to face yours alone. A Person who will listen to a child will be a Man who will always work to understand your words. A Person who can stand alone will be a Man who will not crush you under His weight. A Person who controls Himself with ease will be a Man with the ability to control you in the same way. A Person who does not have to prove His point will be a Man with many worthwhile points to share. A Person who never makes demands will be a Man who treasures anything you give. A Person who doesn't run after you will be a Man you will never need to run away from. A Person who is calm will be a Man who can weather your storms. A Person who has walked the path to peace will be a Man able to guide you along that path. A Person who does not shout will be a Man who will never deafen you. A Person who knows Himself will be a Man who will have time to know you. A Person with an open mind will be a Man who never stops learning. A Person who never stops learning will be a Man who never stops growing. A Person who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Man. 1. The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years. 2. The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others. 3. The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship. 4. The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place. 5. The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others. 6. The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances. 7. The healthy submissive is playful. 8. The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty. 9. The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments. 10. The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent wrongness about those needs. 11. The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships. 12. The healthy submissive, in accepting herself as is is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what her truth should be. 13. The healthy submissive has a reasonable self concept, aware of her difficulties as well as her strengths. 14. The healthy submissive hunger is to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service. There is a voice that cries deep within my soul. It is the voice of a slave.