The next time I find a "Club FAR member" RAFing me I am considering denying their request without a thought. (Well... I rarely grant or deny without a thought. If I like you on the basis of prior conversation etc. then you've got a lot better chance of having a request accepted in any case, circumflexes not-cedilled... er.)
Off to relax to a famous (in Britain) piece (that I don't know).
Edit: I should emphasize- I'm not emphasizing some particular order, I'm suggesting (while I'm not generally a fan of over-strict, letter-over-spirit, adherence to the "Golden Rule") the importance of treating others as though they were (... at least, in some peoples' cases) deserving of equal respect to that which one gives 'self. ...