Well another Holiday is almost over and many people will be going back to work. Spending the holidays alone is the lonelyest of times, sure we have friends and family, but its still not the same as haveing that special someone in your life to spend it with. That is where the Risk Factor comes in. So many people are to afraid to take a risk now days, and i dont blame them. They work hard all there lives and then meet someone weather it be on the net or in a bar or at any other fuction.They have to decided is this person worth giving up there freedom for. We all love our Freedom when we are single, to be able to come and go as we please and do what ever we want to at anytime of day or night. Then there is the big Risk Factor. What are you willing to give up for that other person? Are you willing to give up your home, maybe even your job to be with that person, or maybe even move to another state or country. That is a Risk Factor that scares the Hell out of alot of people. Can love be that strong for the other person for you to take that risk? Can love be that controling over your life? or is it lonelyness that controls it? We all know that love, Real love comes from the heart, but many of us have been alone for months or even years. We look around our lives everyday and see couples everywhere, and it makes us wonder why we cant have that in our lives also. Are we that picky when it comes to finding a partner to be with or are we in Reality afraid to take that Risk? Sometimes risk can be good, but isnt Love a risk? isnt Life a risk? Now the other Risk Factor, Looks, personility,Age... Damn now there is a risk,,,lol.. Everyone always says to them selves, i wont settle for second best, i want the best....WAKE UP PEOPLE,,,the best has past us by years ago, we sit around getting older by the day and watching other people be happy. Sometimes in our lives we have to settle, Sure maybe she isnt the greatest looking, hell maybe she even snores and rattles the windows, but how perfect are we to her? To me the one Big Risk Factor is,,, How long do i want to be alone and be settled in my ways, and maybe let life with a good woman past me by, That is a question i have ask my self many times over the years,,,Years? Damn, Maybe i need to wake up also,,,lol...All in all the Big risk factor is, We need to get off of our Asses and do something about our lives and make the changes we want and not be so damn picky about what we really want,,,,Risk factor? Maybe its a Risk we all need to look at . So if someone catches your eye, or something they have said that makes you think, persue it, make it happen, take the Risk, you never know, you might just wake up happy one day,,,, Just my Thoughts
