I just found out I'm being sued by the state to testify against my ex bf. He is the "father" of my child and I haven't seen him since I was about 3 months pregnant. Now that my daughter is almost 4, five years later, the state apparently "found him...." even tho we live in the same town! Good job guys!
So now I have to deal with the fact because his sperm linked up with my egg and created a child IIIII have raised completely by myself....he has a legal right to have a relationship with her and there's nothing I can do about it...
If this was a decent man, (and he IS a man, was 34 when I got pregnant) I would have NO problem allowing her to see him. But i felt very threatened, which was why I left him...and there's the fact she's almost four and he never has made a single attempt to see her...it's fucked...but if the state sues him for child support you KNOW he'll take her just to get revenge on me...Im scared
