Ya know........ I could give this a big set-up. I could talk about alot of things......... but to the surprise of my kids and others. hehehe
What a relationship was, is and will be is left to the people in it and what they both want it to be. It's that simple. One person can't carry it, it takes both. It takes a complete commitment to the relationship to make it work.
The problem is most of us are more worried about what it is doing for us. What more can I say. Quit worrying so much about what you are getting out of it and start worrying about what you are giving to it. But, one person can't carry it.
As for forgiving, it's the simplest thing in the world. "Sometimes you have to embrace the things you hate the most to let them go." That includes things about yourself.
As for love, I wouldn't wanna love any other way than the way I love. Once I give it to you, it's yours forever. There aren't too many people I can think of that I don't love in some way. I think it can be uncomfortable to others at time.
I think it can make you a bit arrogant at times. I think you realize you have something others don't have. You understand that we are all just human. We screw up, hell, sometimes we screw up alot.
Well, let's just stone your azz. It's like people want you to screw up just so they can feel better about themselves. They jump up and down, pointing and shouting. "Look, They just Screwed Up!!!"
What? You hope their screw up will over shadow your last one? The night you came home drunk and parked your car in the neighbors front yard? You sang karoke at your sisters wedding, against everyones thoughts on the matter?
I think people don't get it for the most part. It's like this. I'ld rather put energy into loving you than put energy into hating you. I might get something good out of the one. The other is only gonna make someone miserable.
Besides, I have the best fail safe in the world. God expects it of me........................
