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279312's blog: "Relationships"

created on 03/27/2008  |  http://fubar.com/relationships/b202027

TRUST

Trust is something that I give freely, because due to things in my brain, I assume that all people will do as they say. I met a woman on this site, and I put all of my trust in her. She knew about my head injury and how things said and done could/would affect me emotionally. So after talking for a few weeks, she decided that she would tell me she would come and see me for the week of my birthday. We made plans and everything seemed to be going well, then it got to be the day before she was going to leave. She told me that she wanted to see me so much that she was going to leave a day early. So she was leaving Friday afternoon at 4, or so she said. Friday around 10, after she should have been here, I text her and ask her if she is close, and she replies "No, I took a wrong turn." Finally I find out where she is and she is in Tennessee where it is storming. She says that she is going to get a room for the night there, so I am like ok. I ask her when she will be headed this way and she states that she will be leaving between 8 & 9 the next morning. So Saturday morning arrives, 8 & 9 both go by without a word from her. Finally around 11:30 I hear something and she says that she is "shopping for the perfect gift" for me. I tell her to come on and we can go together, yet I hear nothing for a couple hours. The next thing I hear is her saying that she is in line to check out, but there are like 100 people in front of her. Hours go by and I hear nothing else. Later that night I text her and tell her that I am tired of the game and for her to either come here or go on home. She replies that she had a flat tire & got into a wreck. She fails to tell me anything else other than her car is kindof messed up and she is going to still try and come. So another night passes, I get up at 11 today with 2 text messages from her. She has stated that she is still going to try and make it and that she went to the hospital for stitches. Shortly after getting the texts, I call her and she says that she is going to get breakfast then be on her way. I found out where she was and looked up directions and she is about 4 hours away. Several hours pass and still nothing. I try to call/text her several times without a hint of a response. This evening one of my friends noticed that she uploaded some pictures to her page, so I ask her what is the deal with that, and she states that she has not been on Fubar. I also look at her pictures, and notice that she has removed a picture that I made for her. A couple hours later I tried to view her page, yet I was blocked. This was an elaborate scheme created by a lunatic female who has no care for anyone else's emotions. She can be found here. If you care anything about me, please go here and say something. Thanks for your time

Sybil

I am to the point now where I hate people. Not as a whole, but getting kinda close. I have been talking to this woman I met off a dating site for a little over two weeks. We had met twice, yesterday being the most recent. She was 44, I am 25. But to me, age has no bounds as long as both people are happy. She told me that she was happy, and I guess I was too. So we were talking earlier today and everything seemed ok. So I got online tonight and she was online and sent me an IM. I responded and everything was seemingly pretty cool. So after a little while of talking, she ends up telling me that she did something stupid. But no matter what I said, she kept trying to hide it from me. So I prodded, but she kept saying she was ashamed and didn't want me to hate her. So I told her that it wasn't helping that she was trying to evade me or something. After a lil more pushing, she said "OK, you asked for it." So I say "ok." She types for about 4-5 minutes, and when she finally sends it, she tells me that today she had gone to the mall to meet someone that she had met off the same dating site. When she met him, she kissed him and she told me that she "kinda" liked it. This all happens after yesterday she told me that she was mine. So I get a lil upset and am like WTF? From that point on, I have been ignored
So here it is 12:55AM and I am sitting here typing. You have been on my mind all day, and while I was unable to talk to you earlier when I was with my parents, you were still the only thing on my mind. I realize that I went and saw a movie, but during the movie, I was thinking about how nice it would have been if you were sitting there next to me. Ever since our first words, I have thought highly of you. I love the fact that you are so honest with me. I know that I may get annoying or bothersome with my whole time thing, but if you are able to work with me a little, together we will both get through it. I love talking to you, whether it be by phone (which we only did for a short time), or by computer. You always know what to say to make me smile. I love being able to see you while you talk to me, because I get a lot of emotion from you as you type, and I can understand more of what you are saying. It thrills me that I am going to meet you today. I am overwhelmed with joy and happiness in that thought. You are truly something special to me, and I hope that together we can be something amazing. I realize that only time will tell, but at this point in time I think that we will be great together. I know we just started talking, but I want you to realize how much you mean to me. Just the fact that you are talking to me, understand what I am going through and still interested makes me adore you even more. That shows me that you are truly a God given blessing upon me. I am glad that you came into my life. If something should happen and we don’t work out together, I hope that we will ALWAYS remain good friends. Love, Jonathan

Grrrr

Wow... So I have been talking to this female for about a month and a half. We have gone through some pretty intense situations and they have all been kinda bad. Through everything that we went through, we were able to talk out our problems and get close to back to normal. Well then this past weekend happened. I went to the beach, and I was too busy to call her, or let alone anyone; so I did what I was doing while at the beach. When I arrived back home, her and I talked, and she was upset that I had not spoken to her while I was gone. I told her that I was busy and had not spoken to anyone. She tells me that I am not showing her the respect that she feels she deserves, and I told her that I was busy doing stuff while at the beach. She then tells me that she does not understand anything I do, or how I act in situations; basically telling me that she doesn't know how to deal with me. Since she doesn't know how to react to me, or deal with me; she basically tells me that she can't be with me anymore. So I tell her that I think she should just walk away before anything else goes on. She proceeds to tell me that she thinks we can be just friends and progress further into a relationship. I have already told her that if she is too good to be my girl, then I can't be in a friendship with her, because of prior emotional issues that I have. She chooses to disregard what I say, and thinks that we can be just friends. I tell her that since she chooses to disregard my words about her and friendship, then I must get on with my life. Since she chose to not listen, I walked away, and it was not a good feeling. All of this happens after I won a $50,000 lottery a few hours earlier. I offered to take her and her two kids to Disney, since it is their birthdays soon, and she rejects my offer. So in one day, I went from a very high point by winning the lottery, to getting dumped on by the person I loved the most. WOW

Leigh Pt. I

Ugh... I have been in a relationship for a few months now. The girl that I am in the relationship with is 6 years younger than I am. We met from an online site. The first time we met in person was about 1.5-2 months after we talked the first time online. When we met, everything was wonderful and we both got along great together and everything seemed to be going well. Over the time between now and then, she has asked for my input as to how she can change herself and do things to better herself. As I offer advice to answer the questions that she has asked, she doesn't seem to like the answers that she has been given. Not just the answers I have given her, but the answers everyone has given her. She seems to be very immature. She asks for help but doesn't intend to use the information that she is given in the responses she obtains. She has been out of high school for about a year, or so. She seems to be still stuck in the high school atmosphere, because everything gets to her. She lets everyone around her that has an opinion influence her EVERY move and it is really getting to me. She sleeps all the time. She goes to bed at 2-4am, making me unable to talk with her in the mornings when NORMAL people wake up. I send her text messages and call her and so on, but I never get a response. Last night she told me that she had stuff to do today so she was going to go to bed. I didn't receive any word from her until after 1:30pm today. I have been trying and trying and trying and trying to make things work out for us, but as hard as I try, it seems the less I accomplish. She is in class right now, and I told her after her class we need to talk. I have given her SO MANY chances that I am at my wit's end and have given up. I am sitting here now trying to figure out if I really want to continue this relationship; because at this time this relationship seems to be doing more bad than good for me mentally and emotionally.

Til It's Gone

You know the old saying "You don't know what you had until it's gone?" Well, to my ex girlfriend/fiancee, that feeling is all to real. Yesterday she was acting a fool, and one thing led to another...one foul word led to a breakup, and now she realizes that she lost the best thing she EVER had. Granted, she is 19, and I am a couple days shy of 25, she still did not have the maturity she needed to be in a relationship. She was always quick to respond without thinking of her words, and finally after months of putting up with this, I just got to the point where I was tired of it. back to the point of this blog, tonight I went out for a couple hours...but when I got home she called me bawling. We had talked earlier this evening about taking some time apart and working with handling our own issues. Less than 3 hours after we had decided that we would take some time to figure out what all was going on, she was hit with the fact of knowing that I was no longer "hers." After knowing this for a few hours, it completely made her rethink everything that she had done and said. She called me bawling and telling me that she was going to be unable to handle it like she thought she could. I tried to tell her that once I was gone, it was going to get to her and she didn't believe that it would; in the end everyone should cherish what they have in life, relationships, and in general before allowing something stupid to come along and bring down everything. Hope those who read this will gather this rationale, and understand that it is easier to hold on to what you have than have to deal with losing it... Goodnight

Til It's Gone Pt. II

So, the girl who lost it all in the first part of this blog got a second chance. We made up like nothing had happened (became friends again and then bam, it happened all over again. We had made plans to hang out on New Years' Eve about three months ago. She was aware of these plans, then all of a sudden this past Friday night, she decided that she had more important things to do, and she was going to blow me off for New Years, which we had planned for long ago. I tried to get in touch with her all evening and all night last night, but she just ignored me completely. Back when we were together, she was always the optimist talking about if we had a problem we should talk about it. Today I got bored and ended up calling her house, thinking that I may be able to reach her there. Her mother answered the phone and asked me if everything was ok, and I was like "No, because I have been ignored for no apparent reason for the last 12-15 hours." She then told me that all girls are finicky and said that she didn't know what was going on and would have her get back to me later this afternoon. Eventually, this afternoon, she called me and we talked. I asked her what the hell she was thinking and why she was ignoring me. She claimed that she was not ignoring me, just that she was busy with something else. So I am like...you can ignore me while you are all pro-talking, and it is ok. Eventually it boiled down to the fact that she said she is really confused and doesn't know if we are right for each other in whatever fashion. So I was like, ok whatever. Then she kept talking, and she said that her mom talked with her earlier, and her mom told her that she could never love me or care about me as a friend the way I care about her, because I called today concerned wondering why she had been unresponsive, and her mom was like there is no way that you can treat him the way he treats you, no matter what you are. She told me that this was all confusing to her. So she told me that she needed a little time to think things through, and after the New Year, we would sit down, and try and start our friendship over again. But the LAST THING I TOLD HER was "REALIZE WHAT ALL IS AT STAKE HERE, because if you make the wrong decision, I am gone." I also told her that I was tired of running around in circles, and the last time we stopped talking, she was on the whole "I need to think things through bandwagon" which she is getting back on now. And last but not least, the last time we stopped talking, she said that the more time we didn't talk, the worse things got. I then asked her why she made that choice, and offered it to me as a resolution, which she had no response to. Thanks for reading
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