Many questions go through my mind. As I am sure it does many of you. What I don't understand is why is it so hard to find true love? When people look for a mate they look for things they have in common, same interests, and same passions. Compatibilty isn't such a big issue. If you really care for someone or love them you learn to enjoy the samethings or you just plain don't. But why try and change someone? For instance when someone ses you there are qualities they love about you. They decide wether to get to know you or not. But then when they take the step of dating they always try and change you. Every relationship is going to have differences that is what makes people interesting. But when u choose to be with someone it's because of what you have in common or the attraction you have. So why get together and then live together to just want to change that person. Then why not find someone thta has the qualities and likeness that you want?
So make the person miserable and make them change to ur liking? Wouldn't it just be easier to find someone that is how u like them to be? Only thing that comes out of a relationship of someone trying to change you is hate. Not a happy relationship.
So does true love exist. Or is it that you just make it work? Why can't people love you for who you are not what they want you to be?
Is there any faithful men even left? Men that love for who you are and not who they want you to become. I am 42 years old and still can't figure this out, and probably never will.
Love isn't difficult, it;s the people that make it difficult. Life is to damn short wasting on someone that wants to control your every move.
Games people play. Can't they just love you for who you are instead of making games out of it.
Is sex always an opening topic? What ever happend to men wanting to get to know you and things that you like etc....
Input much appreciated cuz damn I just dont get this at all lol
