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I'm interested in meeting all different kinds of people. I have so much love to give, but at times it seems no one wants it. I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend John, we've been together over four and a half years.
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I think that I'm asking for too much at times. My ex husband was abusive in every way imaginable. My live in boyfriend, swears at me all the time when he's not completely ignoring me. He plays on his computer all day. He's addicted to D.A.O.C. I beg him for a few min of his time and I get told to shut the fuck up. I don't feel special, I don't feel attractive. I live for my daughter. I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy again. I'm not saying this for pity or anything like that. I'm saying it because I don't want any of you to take offence if I'm kept to myself or seem distant at times. I LOVE to laugh and smile if only if only the tears would stop.
There have been so many people here on Lost Cherry asking to see my private folders. I've been VERY lenient & allowed access to those of you who asked to view them. However, there's been a problem. For the past 2 weeks I've been getting swamped with requests to see them, about a third of them are from people I don't
know! I've looked where some of them have been on my page (Thankx to L. C's new "who's been here" feature) and I found out that most of them never even bothered to look at the pix I have up in my default folder! After I found this out I figured I have to put up some rules as to who can & who can't see my personal photo's.
Before I start with my new rules I want to say that requests to see my personal pictures are ALWAYS WELCOME COMING FROM MALE & FEMALE (yes, I value the opinion's of my gay, & BI friends as well, If you have a problem with this KISS MY ASS!! You can find a nice PIC of my ass suitable for framing in my private folders) :) MEMBERS OF MY FAMILY, MY FRIENDS & FANS. To me these are my TRUE FRIENDS here on Lost Cherry. The ones that have taken the time to read my profile simply because they want to get to know me better or learn more about me. They rate my pix, leave me comments on them to make me smile, laugh, or even because they just want to. Some of you know me well enough to know that I have a problem with my self esteem. It makes my day to be able to read comments left by them on my pix. The same group of friends that leaves me comments on my profile almost daily or whenever they get the chance. Some of you guys know that I save all the pic complements I get. I put them in a separate folder in my comp. The file name I give the tags is the date it was sent to me on+ the name of the sender. That way I'll be able to remember all of you for years to come. You guys are the best! I love you all!
Now comes the difficult part. I have to make sure that the people I let see my private folders aren't just some random people coming in who I don't know. I have put a lot of thought into this. The rule that I came up with is this. In order to see my private folders you must be a friend of mine, and a fan of mine, you must also rate several of my pics & leave comments. (this is the only way that I know for sure that you were there and saw my default pix) Then if your still interested in seeing them after those things are complete, please send me a private mail letter letting me know that you read about the conditions I have (on my profile) to see my private folders, then standing on your head, singing show tunes, NO! JUST KIDDING ABOUT THE LAST 2! LOL. Then just ask to see them. I will then look around my site if I need to, decide, and get back to you as soon as I can. I may only add you to my family on a temporally basis, I will decide if you can stay on or not. Please keep in mind that I get an average of 50 requests to see my private folders a day. Asking me to see them over a shout box message will only piss me off. Also, please understand that you might see me on L.C, but I had to step away from the computer for a while. Most of you know that my daughter had a stroke when she was 11, at times she needs me & she is always #1 in my life. You might have to wait for me to get back to you, if she's in the hospital I usually bring my laptop along. My profile tells about my daughter's disease in your interested in reading about it. I love to educate about what she has, it's very rare, it's hard for me to see her suffer but I'm ALWAYS there to help her in any way I can. Okay, I guess from reading this you learned a little more about me & about the problems with my personal pics. I'm not trying to be a bitch by saying that you must be a friend, a fan, rate & comment in order to see my private folders. I was really hurt that strangers were asking to see those pics. I feel by doing this is I'll have a better control on who sees them. As always, I'm willing to be friends with anyone on here, regardless if you rate or comment. This sure isn't a popularity contest, & I'm not on here for ratings or to see how many friends I can get. I'm on here to meet new people & make new friends like the rest of you are. The ratings are a bonus to me same with the comments. I like getting them, but there not required to be my friend. I hope that you guys & gurls understand why I had to do this. If you have any comments or suggestions on this please send me PM (private mail) Thank-you, Love & BIG HUGS to you all,
Laurie~ AKA Cherry~ (it's been my nick name of 18 years lol)
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Get Your Own Voice PlayerManage ♠ SOMETHING NEW TO MY SITE ¢¼ I'm adding this for a few reason's. I think it would be great to hear from my family, friends, and fans to actually hear what you sound like. Another reason is that I'm getting behind in my private mail and friend requests. If any of you want or need to talk to me, I will get this message faster. Please don't think that I'm ignoring any of you, I appreciate all of you. ♦ So go ahead leave me a message. ♦ Ask me a question, ♣ tell me of some important mail you've sent, ♠ alert me of something important, ♣ tell me something funny, ♠ leave a complement, ♦ leave a complaint, ♥ tell me a joke, ♦ or just say hi ♥ be creative, make me laugh! ♦ I hope to hear from you soon!♦
♠ Kisses & hugs,♠
♥Laurie♥ (your RedheadedCherry)