1,2,3 My Pet Peeves of CT
1. Blind friend requests- Ya know I always make it a point to at least leave some sarcastic wit or something that would put an inkling as to why Im worth getting to know- as a person, when requesting an add. I hate when people don't leave a comment on my prof - if they rate it or look at it at all- they don't leave any comments on any pics (yes I do check, not to mention 500 friends avg. of 20 ratings on a pic wtf people) and yet they send me friend requests. WHO ARE YOU! WHY DO YOU WANT ME TO ADD YOU!? theres my top pet peeve. In light of this I'm no longer adding people that say nothing anywhere to me before requesting an add. I'm not a friend whore I don't need more lame bullis to go thru when you repost something when you never say anything to me at all. EVER. Take this add and shove it.
2. People who all they say is - Can I see your privates? They don't even say HI! FFS! again WHO ARE YOU!! I know plenty of people who want lots of friends.. I dont unless you might be willing to talk to me sometime. Yes I have great boobs- No you can't see them. Take this add and shove it.
3. Those lovely people who all they want - is points. The only bulli you see EVER posted by them is either a) I'm in this contest, or B) please help me level. Hi, My Name is Mel, have you ever spent 20 mins on my page? no? hmm- take this bulli and shove it.
Yeah I guess you can say I seem to be on a bitch rampage these days- not so much really. The truth of the matter is you reap what you sow and I would never see those bullis had I not been carefree in accepting requests from the start.
But hey hindsights 20/20 and I think Ive learned my lesson.
Another thing- I feel personally like shit- when I have 500 friends on my list and only talk to a dozen or so of them. I have so many people to get to just trying to say hi ty for the blind add- heres a 10 for you, that I find myself not able to catch up on my "real" friends pages.
So- In light of this, I'm weeding down my friends list. If you are currently on it, TY for being a friend. If I havent talked to you inawhile and you would like to stay my friend drop me a message, I'll try to make more time to make it more mutual.
For recent friends- you guys rock!! Ive been way more picky about accepting friends in the last week or so and the ones Ive made over the last week or so - you guys seriously rock! Thankyou all for taking the time to read my rants and my blogs and my posts.. I know I love getting to all of yours. ( And ty ty for your patience with my notorious spontanious ninja afk's for what seems like hours in the middle of a convo- I blame my ADD {lol} ty ty ty !!
To my friends Ive had since I came to LC (and before even- I'm sooo sorry genuinely for not making it to your pages in awhile or keeping up- look at this whole weeding thing as my show of true love for you guys! I want to be able to see you guys too! hehe <3
I Love you all even though you're all fucking bats!! (Say's my Ozzy Bobblehead!)
xoxo
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Things to Know BEFORE you friend Me
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Firstly- Yes I do have adult pics. I have them set to friends can view but please don't leave lewd or crude comments on there.. I don't personally care whether or not you got off to the idea of me. They are there because I think skin is beautiful. I'm not looking to mass level or be #1 - if you feel the need to leave a comment like that please, leave it on someone else's page.
Secondly- No I do not have YIM AOL MSN or any of the other Im thingies out there. No I have no need to see your penis or other tids and bits through a 100/300 pix screen on my pc. I prefer phone sex to cyber sex- I like my hands free headset Capishe? :P - No you can't have my phone number.
-I'm a bit half hazard when first accepting friend requests.. I don't always get to everyones page the minute I accept your add, though chances are I will get there eventually. Remember you friended me.
I am afk (away from keyboard) and logged in ALOT- if you send me a shout and I miss it or don't respond , it's typically because I was afk- or you sent me some dumb ass shout asking if I wanted to cam. In which case .. I will ignore you, then most likely remove you from friends.
I'm a very laid back happy kind of person 99% of the time. Being online you don't get to see the other 1% unless you piss me off {grin}
My Family list is small- but the people on it are a huge part of my world in one way or another. If I remove you for being childish (from friends) and you hit up their page .. God has no wrath like a Pixi Scorned. Get it? :) Also my family list are people who I HIGHLY reccommend getting to know .. they are some of the best people I've met in CT or even before LC.. Some of them Have some of the Best writings and blogs, others are just fantastic people who everyone should love, or maybe both.
I believe in respect as a 2 way door, as is friendship, friend is a loose term on these boards.. but if you have patience with me, as a friend.. eventually you may be family.
I do try to take a full day here and there in my life to sift through my pages of friends and make it to everyones pages to "give love" but Im not a copy paste html junky.. if I don't have the time to leave at least a sentence on your page or in a comment I generally wont. (not that I don't appreciate my friends doing that to me.. because I do.. ) lol
When it comes to reposting- If it isn't something the general concensus of my friends is into - I wont. I don't
* repost contest thingies usually
*repost give this person love thingies Unless it's a person who has spent a day at least working on their own profile before spamming friends. If I go to this persons profile and they've been a member for more than a day and don't even have an about me section chances are , I'm not going to tell all my friends to take time to give this person love.
*repost- hey look at my penis or new xxx pics up!!! .. no thanks alot of my friends have no need to sift through that or have no interest in that. I appreciate you posting updates, but don't expect me to pass it on.
*anything that is 6th grade drama. Sorry I'm a grown up. I have no need to even read it. Little well my friends or family.
I Do-
*repost anything genuine being -
Writings-
System Messages
Jokes
or little tids and bits of interest.
- I fan everyone.. If youre on CT I'm a fan :P I entirely blame that on Baby J though {wink}
- It's a little thing but I always try to send little gifts ever now and then when I can :)
-If I ask you to be my friend before you asked me- I'm genuine, I stumbled across you most likely from another friend or a family members page and you piqued my interest. Please get to know me! hehe.
-I hit up stashes & blogs before I hit up photo albums-- ALOT more often. I love watching little clips or reading jokes.. it's not that I don't appreciate other peoples pictures, its just that My interest is in alot of other things as well.. and Stashes are points too :P
-I have a VERY LONG PROFILE.. I know That , and I know ALOT of people don't actually read it, but 9/10 questions I tend to get from new friends are in the FIRST paragraph of my profile. Please read it. I put alot of work into it and to know I have to repeat what is blatantly right there is just.. irritating to say the least {lol}
- Please rate my profile if you take the time to click on my page. Don't go straight to my pictures. Yeah I know I have pretty eyes .. but .. I'm more than a perfect set of tits and pretty eyes, believe it or not.
-I usually click on someone , rate them->fan then->peek at their stash/blogs!! (I'm a blog junky!) after READING their prof -> then pictures if I have time. I'm just like that. I like knowing people better than looking at them I guess, if I just wanted to stare at pretty people all day I live 5 blocks from Millenium Mile in Chicago. get my drift? lol
So yeah now this is a small book of my CT ways-- I'm sure it will get added to evenutally but for now I think you can get Mel's abc's of LC/CT lol
Thankyou if you actually read this!!!
XOXOXOXO
Mel
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*Update- Nov 30th
To people on my friends list or contemplating friending me because I have nice tits :)
*Now on My PROFILE*
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And here I was so proud for the few months I've been on here not to have to put this in my profile - but I'm tired of people not listening or for that matter Friends not reading my blog when I posted 3 times for people to read it- Now Im kicking people.
I'm a really laid back chick yeah- I love meeting hip people and such but Im frikin sick to death of people = ON MY FRIENDS LIST even+ asking me if I cam= I DON"T its that frikin simple- I DONT HAVE YIM MSN AIM or any of the other IM"S. AS STATED IN MY READ THIS BEFORE YOU ADD ME BLOG. /sigh
Seriously if you want to be my friend- be that- I'm just kicking people now I have no tolerence for stupid shit. Read my blogs my stashes my fucking profile for godssake- I'm ALOT more than a perfect set of tits. Thanks!
If this offends you- then I think we both know where that add request can go ;) Muwhahah
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*Please Note- I am No longer accepting friend requests from "blind invites". (this is the second time in this post I'm saying it incase someone missed it) If you don't leave something in the little tell this person something about you box when asking for an add , I will decline it. It's not that I'm stuck up, I'd just rather have people using my friends lists for referrals as other interesting people to get to know. If I don't have any idea who you are- how am I to judge adaquately whether or not we could even have a 2 second conversation. The point is theres a box. Use it. even if its just Hi my name is ___ and I like blue. it's that simple lol.
Also to note- I've temporarily locked my adult pics,(of me) I'm leaving them that way for awhile- I would honestly - rather have my friends be interested in me for something more than gettin off to a pic of my boobs. Ironically enough. I know most of my "friend friends" actually talk to me and look at those hardly ever anyway - so, hey maybe once I finish getting rid of the riffraff I'll reopen them.
To those that actually read this- Thankyou for caring enough to take 5 mins out of your life.. to hear my rants and know whats up<3 I wholeheartedly appreciate it.
<3 Mel
I wish I could sticky this at the top of my recent blog lists so people see it without having to dig through my blog folders ;) Oh well. *Bump* 
