Does he/she still tell you I love you or say the things they use to?
Do they still hold your hand in public, and walk beside you?
Do they still notice the little things you do for them, do they still appreciate it?
Do you still cuddle on the couch, or in bed at nite when you retire to your room?
Does he still buy you flowers?
Do you still go out on dates?
When you kiss, do you still feel the spark that use to be there before?
How do they react when you put something cute on just to get there attention?
Does it hold there attention, do they turn away with out saying any thing to acknowledge you?
I have noticed in so many relationships as in my own as well, that all these things seem to fade away in time. You soon become strangers it seems in your own house. Instead of embracing each other, you are passing each other in the hallway with a short glance and a smile as if you were only neighbors. Then your life seems to feel as if you are on a road with no end. On a rollercoaster ride without any tracks to run on. It seems to become an endless chain reaction of disaster. You start feeling alone as if there were never any one there with you in the first place.
Your heart empties in to an endless pool of heartache, then becomes numb! Soon you feel as though you can't talk to each other about any thing at all. All the time you spent with each other, loving one another as if there weren't another who could take their place, you fill with arguments and silence. Your souls become useless to their purpose. The one you thaught was your soul-mate is now only your room-mate.
That is a sad situation, and one you must run from, one you must find your way out of and travel that road back to your love. Take some time out of your busy schedule to spend some time together and notice each other again.
--}-{@ Tammy Rose Duysen @}-{--
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