I never really understood why love hurt so much when it's supposed to be such a wonderful feeling. Then again I'm young and maybe don't understand what love is really about. I always thought love was something shared between two people who cared deeply about each other, no matter what obstacles were thrown in their way. The love that they had for each other never faltered because they were committed to one another. They shared their joys and sorrows with one another. If something came along they didn't agree upon they worked it out. Even when things were at their worse, their love surpassed all else.
Love isn't easy, it's something to be worked on through communication and honesty. It's the same with trust it doesn't happen overnight. An when you lose trust in someone or something it's not easy to gain it back. You wonder where do you begin? How do you even gain it back? What sort of things need to be done?
Nobody ever said love was easy, if anything it's the most complexed and confusing thing in the world. Think about it if you love someone why do you always end up hurting them, one way or another. I mean your supposed to love another as you would love yourself. No less, no more. The person you love is supposed to be treated as your equal. Someone you can see yourself with in the future and makes you happy. A person you have things in common with, again your equal.
Love is about honesty, trust, faithfulness, co-operation and most of all commitment. Love is all those things combined, not just a few, all of them. Communication can help you achieve all of those things. If you can't communicate with the one you love then you have nothing. Love isn't one sided, it's a joint or combined feeling between two people. Both persons have to be willing to give the relationship their all. Each must contribute ideas on how to improve the relationship. Love isn't about blaming the other when something goes wrong. It's about sitting down together and working through it.
As the bible says....
Love is patient, love is kind, love is not envious or boastful, or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on it's own way; it's not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice in wrongdoing but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
1 Corinthians Chapter 13 verse 4-8
Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. one guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. loves music. pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. A fighter.