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I had wrote something similar to this awhile back but it seems that i have removed it from everywhere . So i am just gonna try my best to remember what i had wrote lol. Tell people how you really feel about them whether it is good or bad. They will look up to you for being honest. When you tell someone that you love them look them in the eyes and sincerely mean it. Don`t say it because you know that is what they want to hear. Say it because you FEEL it. When a girl says "NO" she means it and leave it at that. Do not bring it back up within the next 48 hrs. Trust me. Do not put things off for tomorrow that can be done today. Tomorrow is not a given. So do it today. Smile,even when you don`t want to. Someone somewhere is falling in love with your smile. Late at night when you can`t sleep and you think no one cares. Your wrong. Someone somewhere is laying there thinking about you. Take the time to talk to someone when they want to talk. You never know what they are thinking or feeling on the inside. Someone somewhere is alive today,because you took the time to acknowledge they existed. If you can not handle me at my worst,you sure as hell do not deserve me when i am at my best. You may not know it. But when you say and do things others see it. And it is like a chain reaction. So be careful with that. You never know who is watching you. Someone just thought of you at this very moment. I do not judge,i can only love. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Fool me a third time watch your back. When you have a passion for something do not let others drive you from it. I done that and now i regret it. A woman NEEDS to be loved and shown love. A woman should be NEEDED not WANTED. There is a difference in the two. If you love someone you should talk to them as much as possible. You do not know when they will not be there anymore. That old saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me",that is a line of BS . Words hurt more than people think and does cause people to do the stupidest things because of them. They leave scars that sometimes never heal completely. When you have a boyfriend/girlfriend you should show them respect. So when you "see" someone that catches your eye keep your rude ass remarks to yourself. Good way to lose what you have that you claim to be so perfect to you. This is why girls have self esteem issues and go on those lame ass diets and why guys go to the gym. So they can live up to your fantasy world expectations. Thats just wrong. Do not judge a book by its cover. Take the time to open and read whats on the inside. There is more there than you think. Leave little love notes here and there if you have a loved one. Makes them feel appreciated and needed. Also makes their attitude and day so much better. When a girl says that nothing is wrong. Something is wrong. Don`t push her into telling you. Just give her time and she will talk to you. Just be there for her in the mean time. You don`t have to take me on a fancy night out. Sitting under the stars eating take out is just fine. Girls should ever ask a guy if what they are wearing makes them look fat. Thats just grounds for an argument. Get bigger clothes. Guys should never answer that either. If you do you`ll find yourself sleeping alone on the sofa. Do what makes you happy. Even if your friends and family think your crazy at the time. Do it anyway. No regrets. When you make plans with someone do not cancel and remake just to cancel and remake again. Crap gets old and eventually they are not gonna want to hang out with you. When you give someone your word you should mean it. Guess those days are long gone with certain people. Do not make a promise. Promises are never kept. They are made just to be broken and made again. When you tell someone that your gonna call them. Do it. Because they are sitting there waiting and expecting you to call. When you don't it disappoints them. Call him/her just to say hello and i love you. They will have a better day because you took the time to let them know you were thinking about them. Meaning of being a friend is being there for someone and listening to them and understanding where they care coming from. Knowing their past and believing in their future.Not judging them but loving them for them. Tell them how much you appreciate them every chance you get you. Love can move mountains. Don`t always be so serious all the time. Be goofy and laugh. Life`s too short to be a prude. Its the little things that make a huge impact not the big things. Don`t run when things take a turn for the worse stick around. There could be a happy ending if you take the time to ride it out. Let people inside your heart even though it hurts. Got to love yourself before you can ever love someone else. Do not hold all your anger inside. Talk to someone,before you take it out on someone that you love and hurt them. Sing even if you think you don't have a good voice. If he/she loves you its the most beautiful voice they have ever heard. I`ll stand by you whether your wrong or right. Nothing you can say or do will make me love you less. Do not fall for someone based on their looks. Fall for them for who they are on the inside and the way they make you feel on the inside. Do not use someone unless you want to get used in return. When you tell someone that you will be right back. It means just that. Don`t leave them hanging for hrs. If your gonna leave say so. Play with his/her hair,they like that. When a girl tells you that she is completely in love with you and that you mean the world to her. She means that. And not everyone gets the chance to be loved by her like that. Its a privilege. So don't hurt her. Send him/her flowers just because. They will smile for days. A girl loves to show that she loves and cares. So when she does it just soak it up and take advantage of that mood. When you miss someone tell them. By calling when they least expect it,a text,a card in the mail. Don`t wait till the next time you see them or talk to them. Prove it to them. Cause if you really miss them you would do that. Even though your heart is always on the left. It is always right. Actions speak louder than words. So be careful your actions might be taken the wrong way. The only reason that people ore jealous of one another is because the other person has something that the jealous one does not have. And 99.9% of the time they are jealous because the other is happy. When they themselves could be happy if they really wanted to be. You have the choice everyday when you wake up whether you want to happy or depressed,negative or positive about things. So when your day goes bad you have no one but yourself to blame. Because you let the situations of the day suck you in. Don`t ever change yourself to get someone to notice you,like you,or love you. You should never do that.You change because you want to and to better yourself. Not to please someone else. If they can not accept you as you then you truly do not need them in your life. They say life is the longest thing. Well its not. Life is short. Everyday someone is born and everyday someone dies. We begin dieing the day we are born. Life is too short to not speak up. Don`t build yourself up to make someone like you . Don.`t tell them that you have this and that and been here and there. The only thing your gonna get from that is someone hurt because you lied about who you are. Just be yourself. A woman prefers to be called "beautiful" "gorgeous" "breath taking" not hot,sexy or whatever else you can come up with. Men would rather be called "handsome" "gorgeous" . Its the truth just ask. When someone is having a serious conversation with you do not change the subject or ignore the matter at hand. Will only cause conflict. And they will not want to talk to you about things the next time. Children love unconditionally,why cant we? If you can go a day or more without talking to the one that you love and it does not bother you then something is wrong. And if you can do things with the one that you love but think of someone else. Again something there is wrong there and you need to step back and take a look at yourself and get your head out of your ass. And either fix that or be the better person and walk away. Because more than likely your heart is not in the relationship. Do not drag up your past all the time. The past is the past and thats where it belongs. You cant change things and neither can they. It not only makes you depressed but it makes others around you depressed. Live,Learn,and Move on. If your really into someone don't constantly bring up ex`s. Not only is rude and disrespectful but it makes them uncomfortable. And there is a reason they are an ex or you would be with them now. And don't constantly call,text.or message an ex either thats what obsessed crazy people do. You got hurt,you dumped them,deal with it and move on. They did. When you call someone and its constantly ignored and sent straight to voice mail. Take a damn hint,they do not want to talk to you. Love is pure. Just because you sit there and play video games all day does not make you an expert at real life. Its a game. Life is not. Just because someone you like has sex with you does not mean that they love you. There is other ways of showing that you like someone. A relationship is based on trust,faithfulness,compassion,romance, communication. Its 50/50. Without any of that you have nothing. Don`t blame a new love for what an old love done. Its not based on looks,job,money,or sex. Telling a girl or guy that you want them to fuck you is just messed up. Its a complete turn off. Sex is just that sex. Love making,is having sex with the one that you are in love with and there is romance there ,a spark,a fire. An emotional connection between both of you. Fuck is just having meaningless sex. If your bf/gf makes you sit and wonder if your with them or not. Time to find you a new bf/gf. You shouldn’t have to sit there and wonder if your taken or not. You should know. When a once in a lifetime opportunity comes your way. Take it. And run with it. No regrets. You will most likely never get that chance again. Thats why its called once in a lifetime. When you love a remarkable man/woman and they love you back. Hold on to them and love them as long as possible.For you are not lucky to have them. You are blessed to have them. And its a privilege that most will never get from that individual. Marriage is a bond between two people and god. That you are going love them, be faithful to them,protect and provide for them. If you can`t handle that type of responsibility then you should never get married in the first place. Its based on everything that a relationship is based on and is also 50/50. Wrote on Sunday, March 23, 2008 Had it on my page thought i`d add it back.
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