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Moments in time

The only real time is this moment all others do not exist. I believe we should live in the current moment as much as possible it is really the only time we have any control over. I understand trying to escape from the current moment for various reasons but I think it should be a concious effort and not the norm. I understan that the current moment can be so terrible that we must escape it.

The past are just memories and the future are just dreams and both are fanasties. By not living in the current moment we tend to avoid things. Put off decisions and tend not to deal with the realities facing us. To dwell in the past is to be among ghosts and memories that may not be as good or bad as we think they were. To dwell in our dreams of the the future is to deny the present for the hope of the future that may never be. Promises and expectations of what is to come are not real and cannot be kept. No one really knows what tomorrow will bring and cannot promise any action or thought beyond the current moment.

Now I do enjoy a good fanasty and look forward to some things but too often we use it as an excuse and make promises we can not keep things like I will love you forever or I will do it tomorrow and often tomorrow never comes. I have troulble promsing what I am going to do unless I plan to do it right away usually promises create guilt or hurt feelings because you did not do what you promised often given enough time I will come up with excuses to justify not doing something I never wanted to do in the the first place. So why make the promise in the first place because of the pressuer of another a desire to please them in spite of what you really fell how many of us really have that much courage. Why do others setup that disappointment. The only moment that can be promised is right now all others are a lie either to others or ourselves.

I try my best ot not lie it is so hard sometime because of expectaions of others and sometimes even our own expectations. Saying no seems cold sometimes but the truth must be told one way or another. It is usually revealed anyways. Pain now or later. Are we so much cowards that we always put it off to later. Better that others accept our words now. For there is only this moment

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