Death is such a cliche man...
"I wish you'd die!" is said many more times than "I wish you'd live!"... It's easy for the person who is dead..I mean they are DEAD.. They are happily existing in an amniotic state for eternity.. but those of us who are still living.. Well we get to deal with the bullshit of grieving and the fucking gaping hole that they have left behind...
Death is bullshit