I usually write about myself and thoughts I have in these blogs. I rarely see anything in someone else's perspective that I haven't tackled in my own. I spoke to a family member today and he shared a similar issue with me, that I have also dealt with(too many times). His story is issued as follows...He was dating a girl, they got in a fight over something small. The something small was probably an excuse to get pissed over a bigger problem. The female he was dating threatened to call the police because he was getting groceries out of the cupboard, which he bought. She called the police and he couldn't technically drive, due to his BAC, so he was stuck. He continued to do this until they arrived. They arrived and she told the police he hit her and was drunk. He did NOT hit her. She had no marks and they did a breathalyzer. He had a 0.13. He was told if he didn't have kids, they would take him in. He was basically indicted and almost incarcerated because of a "say so". She contacted him all day today and would not leave him alone. No-doubtedly to appologize. Most women would say he was a "dick" and deserved it or have contemplated doing that to someone they have been in a relationship with. If you haven't then I consider it as a possibility. If you are female, now examine how many times you schemed and thought up ways of getting even in an instance that hasn't happened. If I still get a negative, then you are either a 1 in a million or a liar.
I see this instance as a vicious cyle. How many people go through what Dane Cook calls "Relation-shits"? Bad cases of: "I-shoulda-left-2yearsago-itis"! I have too. I believe that you have to focus on 2 things when finding a decent woman. Whether or not they are 1.) accountable and 2.) reasonable. I see women act with neither most of the time because they haven't been forced to be either or just don't care and manipulate their way through it. I have dealt with my fair share of women who try to get leverage on Derrick and use me for their own ends. I know 4 off the top of my head without being forced to think(which most XX chromosomes will say I am NOT doing). I think it is about selection. Being alone until you see a reason not to be alone. This may or may not come. Especially if you initiate the transition in the middle of a "relation-shit". You get into things like this because you are lonely or want sex or both. Engaging because of loneliness attracts those who are codependent. Inciting this lunacy because of sex leaves with 2 people accepting to be whores. If you just randomly fuck people, it doesn't fill the whole in your heart that someone else should have. You attract what you exude at that specific time of your life : AKA.-You get what you pay for.
If a man actually gets a "good girl" he usually ruins her, hence turning her into one of the vaginal-vampire succubus harpies that scour the earth aimlessly sucking the life from men through their phallus with their labial fangs of hysteria. Women enjoy their new-found power in American society and get girly delight from using it on men as "payback". How about be more choosey who they ask for their routine "Indicktome" procedure. Men act the way they do due to women being crazy and vindictive. Women wonder why men guard themselves with verve, when we have been smote by ridiculous accusations and being victims of conceit. Women act like this because they watch/read Great Expectations after a scorned experience and wait like a Venus(Venereal) Flytrap. The cycle never ceases. I see how much our society has been efeminate oriented. You watch men(typically white) who are made fun of for being men or satirically cited. The P.C. nature of our nation and pop-culture sickens me to the point of deporting myself or declaring a plot of land it's own sovereign nation. I now see why the terrorists fly planes into buildings to some degree. When men and sensible women find a solution to this cycle, maybe I will finally stop debating myself over flying lessons.
