ok so here is my question....why is it when you meet a nice lady,or so you think you have(cause you may not really know her)she begins to unravel portions of her life that have caused her to be EXTREMLY jaded,damaged and confused,why is it necessary to feed her a line,cater to her,perhaps shower her with gifts,take her out make her believe everything you say,and then wake up one day and say "i would like to be just friends",mind you this women is going thru alot,and the last thing she needs is this,all she asked for was a friend,and well you know how the story goes....i guess that would be another notch in your belt!!!!!!!