I need to ask for the honest opinions of those wonderful women that have talked to me on here. Is physical appearance that goddamn important to women? When it is said that, "I am not like all those other girls," is it said in truth, or a wonderful lie? I ask you all of this due to my track record with the opposite sex. I have recently started an involvement with a young lady, looking for something she wasn't getting, a real man. She made every effort to come see me, be in my arms, hang out, and even for those moments that I will not describe here, if you catch my drift. I was told quite often that I was "perfect" and the "man of my dreams," and yet today, I was told I was being passed over for a man who was "gorgeous", and likes tells her she is the woman of his dreams. Now, I didn't invest emotion into her for the reason I saw this coming, but damn it was fun while it lasted. She always had a smile, and her daughter liked the hell out of me, but now she is moving to a different city, so she can be with the "gorgeous" guy. I know I am not the most attractive man in the world. I got a good face and awesome arms, the rest needs work. But I'd like to think that when a woman tells you that you are so good to her, it means something. And yet, like all the rest I have encountered, she is off with something she finds to look better. Take this in account, she said she is tired of supporting the guys she meets, I have a good job, own place to live, and don't need her money. He is broke, and can't even get his own daughter a crib. So she will be taking care of him, just like the ones she was complaining about. She said she didn't want a guy that's all "ga-ga" over her, and yet he tells her constantly that he is. Where as I told her the truth of my feelings. Also she wanted a man that wasn't a complete pussy, which I am far from being. Tender yes, spineless no. And so, I informed her that I would not be one to do anything with her other than hanging out and being friends, sucks because I was enjoying the company, closeness, and the biting, so did she. And so, I guess my full question is this................why is it that when you find someone that makes you feel happy, desired, and treats you like an equal, not a child, they are so easily replaced with the man who is eye candy, and can't save his own skin? It baffles me. If any of you wonderful women have this answer, tell me. I am getting tired of being in the dark. Tank you.
