i'm the oldest of seven kids. i was born in southern california but raised in the valley and yep i was also raised in wyoming... @ 13 we moved to utah and i've been stuck here ever since...

i am a widowed mom of three kids all wonderful in their own way...two of my kids have disabilities and have taught me more than i thought anyone ever could..after the loss of their dad i was in a 3 1/2 year relationship where i was introduced to the wonderful swinger lifestyle... yet we added a little kink to it...i was his 24/7 slave... and anyone that knows me knew that it was a challenge for me to submit.. and no one but him can or will be able to control me like that.. we are no longer a couple and so now i am focusing on my kids and schooling(i'm gonna B a naughty nurse when i grow up!)... oh and a little play with my friends..but now it is on my terms yay!

i am NOT looking for a relationship! i WILL NOT allow someone to come in as a daddy again and have these kids hurt again...now they have lost 2 dads...that is why i have my single girls and my couples...if you are a single male you better have something special about you to get my full attention and you better be flexible in more ways than one..LOL! i'm attracted to cowboys and the badboys (the kids' dad was a cowboy and master was a big,bad,bald,tattooed biker/trucker)

oh i love period pieces, chick flicks, comedies, shoot'em up movies.. and scary movies when i have someone to sleep over (yes, i hide in my pillow while watching)