well after 4 years. i got kinda tired of not being able to keep friends outside of the
military, and decided that life was not for me. in 1998 i got out, and moved to Tucson Az
where my parents had moved to. While i was in the navy i met a girl on the internet, and had
been talking to her for a while.. well after a couple years in tucson (working for
microsoft, and running a couple of internet service providers) i moved this girl here to be
with me. her and her daughter moved in with me and we lived together for a year before she
decided she didn't love me any more and on my birthday, took her daughter and moved in with
some guy she met off the net. it took me two years to get over this girl, to this day i
still have no idea what i could have done wrong to make her want to move, but i'm over all
that. So in thsoe two years. i was alone all the time, living with my parents (she left me
with a lot of bills and i had to declare bankruptcy.. ) I eventually got myself into school
at the university of Az. I did three years there, trying to get a degree in Computer
Science. right before my last year there i met Shannon Elfering. I fell in love with her
pretty quick and despite some pretty glaring problems, i moved in with her soon. well we got
into some heavy drugs together. really heavy drugs. as a matter of fact in the 4 years i was
together with her, there's hardly a drug that we didn't at least try. We even had her son
living with us after a while because Shannon's mother felt like i was very trustworthy and
responsible. Well midway through my last year at the Univeristy, shannon got pregnant. Lucky
she hadn't been cheating on me lately, which i knew for a fact (she had already cheated on
me with 2 guys by this time but i was ignoring that...) so this baby was mine. Abuot 26
weeks into the pregnancy we found out that our baby was going to be a girl and she would be
born with only half a heart. This forced me out of school and into the workforce. i quit
after my 3rd year and went to work to make sure we had enough money to support the four of
us.
well aurora was born on aug 5 2004. she was instantly the most beautiful wonderful person
i'd ever met. I fell in love the moment i saw her, and was lost the first time i held her.
she's my whole world, and nothing is more important to me than her. Well she had 2 open
heart surgeries, and has one more on the way to try to give her heart more time before she
needs a transplant. hopefully the three surgeries will give her to about age 30. well, in
march of 2006 shannon beat me up for the last time. She told me she had TB and was gettin
meds for it that would react badly with her bipolar. ia sked her to stay with her mom till
it was over, and she refused (she denies all of this to this day. says that she didn't know
and she just had a mild asthma attack) anyway. she went nuts one night. destroyed our
house. while the kids were sleeping. i was staying out of her way but keeping an eye on the
kids at the same time. She chucked a phone at me, cut my head open real good. then came
after me swingin. This wasn't the first time she'd beat up on me, but i was sick and tired
of it. she knew i wouldn't hit her back. (no need to ever hit women) so she felt fine about
beatin on me whenever she felt like it. This time i held her hands andput her on the ground
so she couldn't hit me and hopefully would calm down. she proceeded to bite a hole in my
chest (i have the bite mark scar right above my nipple prolly will forever) then at 530 am
she called my parents (who she forced me to have no contact with) and told them they could
'have their son back'. then she passed out and i took AJ and left. well the police decided
to give AJ back to her mom, so i went throughcourt and filed for custody. after lots of
hearings and many different things giong on (which i'll get ito if you want but nto here)
after almost a year, i'm finnally getting to the point where i;ll get custody..
WEll there it is. my life in a nutshell, not much to it. was shorter than i thought...
hehe.. perhaps this will help a lil getting to know me better. =)
