before i go i just want to say how proud am to be mom, one thing never ever dreamed would ever happen, including the fact i am married, never dreamed it would make it as has. number one reason i can be bullheaded. but anyway even when i am dealing with a three that says she can't do this and but can climb to get to something i said no too like her suckers.:) or one minute says she has lots fun with me n the next tell me i am not her best friend.:) gotta get used to that one cuz i remember saying i hated my mom sometime still do but that is cuz two people who are identical in everyway down to mannerisms can't and should not spend more than a hr together. lol ttyl