My old gf is 7 months pregnant and 40 years old. Back when I was pregnant with my oldest (12 years ago)
she had a big issue being around me due to fact she was hurting and couldnt have kids. They tried vitro and all.
Anyways..she wouldnt even come to my babyshower. After 15years of marriage..there marriage went to hell cuz her
hubby had a affair on her and got a girl pregnant. We tried to be there for both of them.. but once she used us to help
her move out of there house..we didnt hear from her again til she needed help moving again. Seemed like
thats only time we heard from her. Anyways.. now shes having a baby shower and called up like best of friends.
I didnt want to speak to her so she spoke to hubby..saying she was gonna send a babyshower invite.
I guess I am spiteful..and all. Part of mes happy that she finally is pregnant..but part of me just pissed over how shes
been over the years. She says this is gods miracle...and says her ex is pissed that shes finally pregant and its not his.
she said that it served him right..that he should never have done what he done. I understand that to some extent..but
in my head.. i feel like saying...oh this baby is a miracle when you fucked out of wedlock? Does god reward that behavior?
But i keep my thoughts to myself. LOL vThis is to lengthy for a mumm..so I am doing it in here.
Should I just forgive like always..and go be happy for her?
or should I just say.. no... I am done with all this?