well lets see.. this happened when i used to work at my old job... this guy adam.. liked me and wanted to hang out so..we did and then we started going out..and this happens at every job i go to ...(somepeople i guess just think its okay to spread crap about me) well somepeople apparently were spreading crap about me i didnt even know.. so like the next day he wouldnt talk to me.. and i was like wtf.. soo i came up to work and hes like "my phone got ruined" and i didnt believe him..and ya..soo like 2 weeks passed and like i came up there..and i was like what is the problem he said that i was going to get my friends beat his ass.. i was like wtf.. i said if you hurt me i would..i told him i liked him too much to have them do that. but then hes like i'll call you tonight.. and talk about it.. he never did.. i havent talked to him after that ..and he has myspace..soo i like wrote him messages and stuff.. i mean obviously i didnt think i did anything wrong .. he was like the perfect guy ive ever dated... and i didnt want to ruin it ya know.. sooo anyways.. i asked his friend why he wasnt talking to me.. and he told me ... because.. i " love tapped him" you know hitting love taps.. i didnt do it hard. and because i couldnt stay out late.. because but mostly cuz somebody at my old work told him that i was trying to hook up with somebody else... and see i tried to talk to him about it he wouldnt listen and still wont.. i dont know what to do.. help me