Why is it girls are always saying they want a nice guy and guys are always saying they want a nice girl. Yet they never seem to find each other? Maybe were all lying to each other about what we really want. So ill go first and speak honestly. I want a girl who is rich and will take care of my lazy bipolar ass . Ok Ok seriously A nice girl that I find attractive would work. Lol I'll even take care of my own lazy bipolar ass if needed.