This blog I guess would be directed to the fairer sex on Fubar, since most men who have "private" folders, would open up those folders to any woman who would want to view them lol. I just felt the need to vent a bit about the whole topic.
Women, you have such an effect and influence on ALL that goes on here. I swear, y'all should be runnin' Fubar HANDS DOWN!!! It's obvious, the majority of money and time spent on this site, is spent on or for WOMEN!! And oh yes, those wonderful NSFW pictures. What hoops will us men hop through just to get a gander at your goods. But with that being said, why all the complaints about all the sexual comments and innuendo you receive, if you do have NSFW pics? C'mon, y'all probably get the same lines thrown at you at the grocery store.
"WITH GREAT POWER, COMES GREAT RESPONSIBILITY!!". If you know you have a body that gets looks and double-takes everywhere you go, you must know that if you photograph it, clothed/half-naked/naked, you're going to get a gaggle of men droolin' towards your profile. And you will have every other comment and "shout" you receive, asking you to grant them the key to your private stash. And yet, the complaints and rhetoric keep rollin' along.
I understand that women shouldn't be treated as pieces of meat, only to be looked at. And I know that a man should take the time to at least get to know the "real" you, before diving into your flesh gallery. But let's be for real here. You put those pictures up for a reason. TO BE LOOKED AT!! AND TO BE LOOKED AT BY MEN (OR WOMEN) SO THAT THEY COULD BE ENAMORED OR AROUSED BY YOUR BODY!!!
No one puts up pictures that they DON'T WANT others to see. And yes, it's under lock and key, because you know what kind of power and leverage those picture hold for you. But please, don't try to get all self-righteous about it! You got nice tits, great! Flaunt it if you want to. But if that's all the comments you get, and you're upset about it, maybe you should look at what ELSE you can offer others, besides cleavage shots.
But when someone puts up NSFW pics, and wants all their "friends and fans" to rate and comment em all, then turn around and say "Hey, I'm not just a piece of meat!!", ok, you're not a piece of meat, but you did just open up your "deli" so let a man be a carnivore for a second, then we can get back to being intellectuals.
I'm an adult. I say "Do whatever makes you happy". And if being gawked at and drooled over gives you pleasure, then by all means, strut your curvy stuff!! And if you love comments about your body or looks, more power to ya. But if you find yourself having to write blog after blog, and bulletin after bulletin, complaining about how you only get comments about your tits and how so many want the bra to come off, how about not showing pictures of yourselves, in just a bra!!
But hey, it's just my opinion........my word ain't law..........
