infpunk235's blog: "what happened to nice guys?"

:Beginning Rant:

How long before a nice guy stops being nice? After how many hurts, rejections, and false hopes does the nice guy say, maybe its really not worth it anymore?
For it seems in this era that the nice guy is no longer the good guy. For some strange reason while it is asked upon us to remain respectful, caring, loving, and chivalrous, it seems that those same people who ask it are in fact lookin for the opposite. While every woman may claim that they want someone truthful, and faithful, and loyal, it seems that in fact they much prefer the beater, abuser, screamer, and cheater.
While women can claim that they want the nice guy, it seems that by the nice guy being nice, he has in fact become too nice, and the woman is no longer constantly fighting, getting hit, etc. so she decides he is not what she wants. Instead she wants the challenge. So this begs the question, how can the good guy ever win?

And while many may say, why don't you just give up on the nice guy attitude then and be Billy BadAss instead, it is inherent of our good guy persona that we can't give up and we must keep fighting the good fight.

Then you have the fact that some women claim that good guys are too obsesive over things. And while given it is usually inherent of good guys to also take pride in what they do, to an extent it can be a misdirection of affection.For infact the guy could just have been hurt over and over so many times that he feels he has to find an inanimate object to love and care for, so as to not get hurt yet again.

Now, while I do feel this mainly pertains to the good "guy", I realize some women may feel the exact same way. But to the good gals out there, you are appreciated, we thank you for being there, and please don't give up on us, because we are still looking for you. And while there may be just as few wholesome gals as nice guys, there are some that can be found.

:End Rant:

Bite it bitches