Alright I've hearing alot of women complain about not being able to find a nice guy. There is a very good reason for that, most of them dont want a nice guy. The guy you cry to when your "asshole" boyfriend hurt you, thats a nice guy and we all know your never gonna do anything with him. Also most "asshole men" started out as nice guys, but became "assholes" because they figured out women dont want nice guys they want the men that treat them bad. Nice guys are a dying breed because women overlook them and take them forgranted. This makes them bitter and alittle cautious towards women. So to recap the guy that listens to you and cares for you and asks nothing of you, but hopes to be with you thats the nice guy your looking for. Treat him right ladies and always be there for you. And to the woman thats never been with anything but an "asshole" quite complaning thats obviously what you want.