Ok this is my delima...... I have 2 very good friends, and they used to be married then date then now again broke up. ( I know they are both gonna read this, but I really think I need the feed back on this one.) Any ways I have this big annual party that I have been having for a few years now( this will be the 4th one) and they both have attended every year. And to really put a spin on it this will also be the very Last one ever due to where we have it is being sold. Anyways... I am very good friends with lets call her Jane.. she is my best friend, and I understand she dont want to deal with her EX there, but on the other hand lets call him BOB, he has done the DJing for this party every year and really knows how to get it going and keep it going, he very fun and out going and alot of people who are coming asked if he was doing it again. Also I am still good friends with him to, Also my mother wants him there to dj. She even offered him Money to come and do it.
Ive been honest with JAne from the get go that BOB was welcome to the party and I was and did invite him, Its true that I do not like BOB's new girlfriend at all, but I am will to put my feelings aside so he can attend, ( trust me not my strong point). And YES I do understand that Jane and new girlfriend dont get along either and there is seriuos issues there, but it is a big place with alot of people and friends from both sides are gonna be there too. I just dont feel its right for my best friend to try to make me choose between the 2 of them, when they both have been big parts of the party since day 1.
Now Janes ticked at me cause my mom offered to pay BOB to dj the party and I didnt tell her.... I didnt tell her cause I didnt know if he was or not. In my mind I figured it would be easier to wait and tell her. If he wasnt gonna do it no reason to set her off. If he was gonna then prepare her for it.
Am I wrong to want both people at the party which is MY birthday party and the very last one were gonna have. Or should I have to make a choice just becouse I am closer to one than the other do to cercumstances beyond my control?
