ARE WE ALL IN HIGH SCHOOL STILL?? WHAT IS IT WITH "SO CALLED FRIENDS"?? HELL MAYBE I AM JUST IN A "MOOD" BUT THIS BLOG I READ EARLIER WENT RIGHT THROUGH ME... I GUESS CAUSE IT IS DIRECTED TOWARDS A CLOSE FRIEND, BUT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH....I HAVE TO PUT MY 2 CENTS IN...
THE " " CAME DIRECTLY FROM THE BLOG... AND MY FEELINGS ON IT...
I don't know how you all feel but the word HATE is a strong word to me.. as is LOVE...
I HATE NO ONE... DISLIKE YES, BUT NOT HATE!!!
~~WHEN I SAY I LOVE SOMEONE I MEAN IT.. I DON'T JUST THROW THAT WORD AROUND TO EVERY TOM, DICK, HARRY, JANE, OR SUE..
~~I DO LOVE ALL MY FRIENDS, BUT THERE ARE SOME THAT I TRULY LOVE AND CHERISH THEIR FRIENDSHIP (MALE AND FEMALE)
~~THESE FRIENDSHIPS MEAN THE WORLD TO ME!!! IT HAS TOOK TIME AND COMMUNICATION, TRUST, CHALLENGES, LIFE, BS, YOU NAME IT... FOR THESE FRIENDSHIPS TO DEVELOPE INTO SOMETHING SPECIAL...
~~NOW WHY WOULD SOMEONE HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THIS??? WHY WOULD THIS HURT SOMEONE FEELINGS??
~~USING MY TOP FRIENDS ONLY AS AN EXAMPLE.. ~~
WHY IS IT SOOOOO IMPORTANT TO BE SOMEONES NUMBER 1 FRIEND?? I HAVE 2 THAT SHOULD HAVE THAT SPOT, BUT THERE IS ONLY 1 SPOT SO I HAD TO GO WITH WHO I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS WITH LONGER....NOW DOES NUMBER 2 HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT... NO!!! YOU KNOW WHY?? BECAUSE SHE KNOWS I LOVE HER JUST AS MUCH... DOES SHE HAVE A PROBLEM THAT I LOVE MY NUMBER 1 JUST AS MUCH AS HER.. NO!!! BECAUSE OUR FRIENDSHIP IS ABOUT OUR FRIENDSHIP.. NOT ABOUT WHO ELSE I AM FRIENDS WITH...
"Now that i've seen what you changed your information to, I kinda felt like i'd just been cast aside.
I realize that I feel like the 3rd wheel or the outsider, like i'm an honorary member of the club but not an official one, not like I earned it, i got the spot because i "rendered services" or something."
~~WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO HAVE THAT SPOT? GEEEEESH I HAVE SEVERAL CLOSE FRIENDS THAT I TALK TO EVERYDAY THAT I LOVE TO DEATH, ARE THEY OFFENDED THAT THEY AREN'T IN MY TOP FRIENDS.. I'D HOPE NOT... WHY DO SOME PEOPLE THRIVE ON THE DRAMA ?? TRY TO CAUSE PROBLEMS WITH THESE FRIENDSHIPS TO BE THAT PERSONS NUMBER 1...OR TRY TO MAKE YOU FEEL BAD OR GUILTY BECAUSE THEY AREN'T YOUR NUMBER 1... WHO FREAKIN CARES!!! THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR NOT IMPORTANT OR I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU
"once again i'm in a position where I feel like I'm giving and giving to someone who's also giving but to someone else besides me"
~~ WHAT??? YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE... AND IF YA HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME GIVING TO ANOTHER FRIEND.. I DON'T NEED OR WANT YA.. THATS NOT BEING A FRIEND.. AND FOR A TRUE FRIENDSHIP TO BE CONSIDERED "fulfilling your committment" IS JUST A CROCK OF SHIT!!
"I don't want you to feel bad for going where you're going, or for fulfilling your committment to someone that you'd promised before you met me, i'm not angry or jealous, it just hurts a little is all."
WHY WOULD IT HURT YOUR FEELINGS THAT SOMEONE HAS A TRUE FRIENDSHIP..THAT HAS TOOK A LOT OF TIME, CARING AND SHARING TO GET WHERE IT IS... YOU TO MIGHT HAVE ONE TOO IF YA STOP TRYING TO TAKE PEOPLES PLACES AND JUST BE A FRIEND THE REST WILL COME WITH TIME... OH AND LACK OF DRAMA MIGHT HELP A BIT TOO!!! THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO BE ANGRY... I DO SEE A LOT OF JEALOUSY WHERE ELSE WOULD THIS CRAP COME FROM?? TRUE FRIENDS DON'T CAUSE DRAMA FOR YOU OR MAKE YOU FEEL BAD THAT YOUR BETTER FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE ELSE... THEY HELP YA THROUGH ANY CRAP THAT MIGHT COME ALONG... AND GOD KNOWS FUBAR IS FULL OF IT!!
"I don't like to make a big deal of things, I know I haven't been around that long and they have but sometimes I do feel left out of the "I love so & so" message only because I have it up there for the world to see how I feel but i'm never up there from you except the one time"
~~USING ME AS AN EXAMPLE~~
~~DOES IT HURT YOUR FEELINGS OR MAKE YOU FEEL LEFT OUT THAT I PUT I LOVE MY A&A's IN MY STATUS?? AND YOUR NAME ISN'T THERE.. WHY DOES THAT MATTER?? YOU KNOW IF OUR FRIENDSHIP MEANS ANYTHING.. COME ON GROW UP.... DO I HAVE TO ADVERTISE OUR FRIENDSHIP TO MAKE IT LEGIT??? OR ARE YOU JUST WANTING PIMPED OUT... NOW THATS A TRUE FRIEND!!!
"In all honesty i kinda hope you never see this but on the other hand at least you'll know how I feel, we can talk it out and move on, I just didn't know how else to say it."
~~ARE YOU KIDDING.. I HOPE YOU DON'T SEE THIS SO I'LL POST IT IN A BLOG FOR ALL TO SEE AND TAKE SIDES.. MAKE ASSUMPTIONS AND POINT THE FINGER..
~~TRY AGAIN TO BE HONEST!!! **edit** ROFL I WAS RIGHT... PSSST A LITTLE SECRET IF YA DON'T WANT SOMEONE TO READ SOMETHING.. DON'T TEXT THEM AND TELL THEM TO READ IT
SO WE CAN TALK IT OUT AND MOVE ON?? SOUNDS LIKE TO ME YOU MEAN I WANT THIS FRIENDSHIP ON "MY" TERMS OR NOT AT ALL.. OH AND P.S YOU CAN'T HAVE ANY OTHER CLOSE FRIENDS OR I'LL TRY TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE AN ASS FOR IT!!
"Maybe i'm just having an off day, I don't know but i've been a bit more sensitive than usual and I don't want to end up hurt and sad as I have so many times before with people who weren't the real deal."
~~SO YOUR SAYING THEY AREN'T THE REAL DEAL CAUSE THEY CARE FOR OTHER PEOPLE?? WHAT A GREAT FRIEND YOU ARE... OFF DAY OR NOT YOU DON'T TREAT PEOPLE YOU SUPPOSIDLY CARE ABOUT LIKE THIS, NOR DO YOU TRY TO MAKE THEM CHOOSE...
I FEEL SOOOO STRONGLY ABOUT THIS I HAVE IT IN MY ABOUT ME SECTION... AND HAVE DELETED AND BLOCKED SEVERAL PEOPLE FOR TRYING TO MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY OR CHOOSE.. IT'S JUST NOT HAPPENING MY TRUE FRIENDS ARE HERE TO STAY AND IF SOMEONE CAN'T HANDLE IT... THEY KNOW WHERE THE BLOCK BUTTON IS, BECAUSE IF THATS HOW THEY FEEL THEN I GUESS THE "FRIENDSHIP" WAS FAKE FROM THE BEGINNING AND WAS NEVER THE REAL DEAL!!!!
~~NOTE~~ THIS IS A IN NO WAY TRYING TO CAUSE DRAMA.. JUST STANDING UP FOR A TRUE FRIEND...PLEASE NO QUESTIONS.. YOU WILL NOT GET ANY ANSWERS AS TO WHO OR WHY... BECAUSE I HATE STUPID KID DRAMA... JUST KNOW I READ SOMETHING TODAY THAT JUST WENT RIGHT THROUGH ME.... SOME WILL KNOW WHAT THIS IS ABOUT AND UNDERSTAND IT A LITTLE BETTER... AS FOR THE REST OF YOU I'M SORRY I HAD TO VENT AND MAKE SOME POINTS KNOWN.... THIS IN NO WAY WAS WROTE BY ANY OF MY CLOSE FRIENDS/FAMILY MEMBERS I JUST USED THEM AS AN EXAMPLE... MY FRIENDS DON'T ACT LIKE LITTLE KIDS
