First of All I want to make it clear that I am White Female who dates men and women of all races. Including white men, Shocking huh? I admit I haven't dated a white male in a minute, but when I was out Saturday night the hottest man I seen was a Caucausian. Don't fall over. That being said, I have something to say to some of the White females who think they are So Hip because they date Bruthas.
!. You didn't become a Sista , because you had sex with a black man. You might wear your makeup a certain way, your hair in a certain style, even form your words in certain tone. When its all said, Gurlfriend, you are still a White Female.
2. Learning to cook Collards Greens, and Chitterlings doesn't make you black either. It's just puts you at risk for heart disease. Mind you, I run to Stang's House when her Daddy's makes greens but doesn't change the fact. My Momma makes greens, too, but she's from Kentucky and hers just taste different, LOL. I digress, Gurlfriends., cooking soulfood doesn't make you black, you are still WHITE.
3. Giving birth to Multiracial children doesn't give change your chemical make up either. It does make a interesting makeup for them. Being a Mother of Multiracial children, I know how difficult this becomes on all sides of the fences. Gurlfriends, YOU ARE STILL WHITE.
Now, what I really want to make clear is because if you have done any of the above, and plenty of things I am leaving out. Hopefully my blog readers will add for me the things I leave out. If you do these things never ever makes you so damn HIP you can use the N-Word. It's not okay. Not any sense of the word. Not ever. Not when you using it to describe your bestfriend, or because you have flipped your script and now your telling your man/lover off. I am so freaking sick of this bullshit. I don't where it ever got okay, when any one let these females get anyway with this bullshit to begin with, but I swear the very next time I hear it I bitch slapping somebody.
I have friends on myspace that have known me decades, and have had conflicts, and can attest that in those conflicts bitch might came out my mouth but never racial slurs. This shit is not okay with me. Friday night, I did everything I could to not have a physical confrontation about this issue but obviously I am still steaming about it. So to all my White Females Friends reading this please take note. Thank you and have a Blessed Day.
