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Trace's blog: "My thoughts???!!!!"

created on 09/16/2006  |  http://fubar.com/my-thoughts/b2822
No Wrong Response Experiences Shape Your Reactions Our view of the universe is largely determined by our experiences. It is when we are caught off guard by the spontaneity of existence that we are most apt to respond authentically, even when our feelings do not correspond with those of the multitude. Events that arouse strong emotions with us or are surprising in nature can be disquieting, for it often is in their aftermath that we discover how profoundly our histories have shaped us. The differences that divide us from our peers are highlighted in our reactions when these diverge from the mainstream, and this can be highly upsetting because it forces us to confront the uniqueness of our lives. When our response to unexpected news or startling ideas is not the same as that of the people around us, we may feel driven by a desire to dismiss our feelings as irrational or incorrect. But reactions themselves are neither right, nor wrong. The forces that sculpted the patterns that to a large extent dictate our development are not the same forces that shaped the development of our relatives, friends, colleagues, or neighbors. There is no reason to believe that one person's reaction to a particular event is somehow more valid than another's. How we respond to the constant changes taking place in the world around us is a product of our history, a testament to our individuality, and a part of the healing process that allows us to address key elements of our past in a context we can grasp in the present. Life's pivotal events can provide you with a way to define yourself as a unique and matchless being, but you must put aside the judgments that might otherwise prevent you from gaining insight into your distinct mode of interpreting the world. Try to internalize your feelings without categorizing or evaluating them. When you feel unsure of the legitimacy of your reactions, remember that cultural, sociological, spiritual, and familial differences can cause two people to interpret a single event in widely dissimilar ways. Examining your responses outside of the context provided by others can show you that your emotional complexity is something to be valued, for it has made you who you are today.

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Life's questions..

I am still wondering why people in my life say one thing and do another, it pisses me off immensely. They profess to be good and honest and wanting then they disappear and withdraw and I cant stand that. Its like they are lying to me or to themselves, and it sucks and hurts too... I really try an avoid people like this but when u love them what do u do?? Well tomorrow is my birthday and im now 39 and still single. I so want to be in a good relationship and possibly be married again, but all i keep finding are players or users. So I prefer to be alone if thats all thats out there. Love to all Tracey...

My fires passing...

My grand mother died yesterday, she was an extraordinary woman of strength, courage, and passion. I now know where I get that fire in my belly from. Her. She was 93 years old and lived everyday to the fullest. She was weaker in the last few years needing assistance from the family, but we all pulled together for her, she would be proud, and just sometimes didn't know how to say it. So now we must remain the way she taught us all to be, diligent and strong, yet soft and caring about one another without the drama and kaos... So to all of my dear friends, dont feel sorry, I encouraged her to go "home" to be woth God now, and that it was ok to let go... And she did. I will always love you and miss you Grand ma.. So will Taylor and Alexis too. So God speed to your next life and enjoy seeing all of the ones who passed before u.. Peanut...

Learing myself...

I've just completed a book, its the Celestine Prophacy its an amazing book about our energy and the beginning of all of life. I truly believe everyone should read it and make thier kids read it and live by it... The world would be a much better place it you all follow these insites... Blessed be to all and much love to everyone.. xoxoxo Tracey

Just everything....

Well here goes my first blog entry on here, its sooo strange to put it all out there for the whole world to read, well, i'm a vegan, i started about 5 months ago. I have lost 40 pounds so far, and i've gotten rid of a high cholesterol and my sugar even went down too, and my overall health and metabolism has increased immensly. I am letting as many people know to go to vegsource.com to find out about what im up to with that. My daughter has started her cheerleading for her first year and shes doing well, so i might be off to florida in dec for nationals. Wish her luck, shes the one in my pictures on my profile. Im a very driven woman with many interests, if u want to contact me off this site im Explosivemom@yahoo.com.. Be well and be good to those you love. Blessed be Tracey.. Hugs and Kisses
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