When a heart is broke is there any real way of healing it? As much as we try the pain is always there. Making us skitish and paranoid to love another. After having your heart broke you never love the same again. Can never give as much trust. We say we are over the hurt but deep down in I dont think we ever really are. We hold on to it so that we dont make the mistake again. As a constant reminder of what can happen if we totally surrender to love. I truely believe that once your heart has been broken you never fully love again.