I'm not sure how many of the ladies out there have noticed this, but I wanted to share a bit of something that I myself have realized recently.
I've been meeting people online for a couple of years now, some I've met in person, while others prefer to just 'visit' online. Which is the reason for my blog.
For centuries there has been an issue with men calling women "cock teases" when the woman doesn't "put out" at the specified time that the man thinks it is appropriate for the woman to do so. And I say, time to take your turn at the plate boys, because from where I'm standing, the roles are definitely reversed.
I've met several men online, big and tall, short and fat, young and older, and they all feel that they have something special for the ladies. Promises are made, and assurances are given, yet nothing comes to fruition. There are emails, and texts, instant messages and phone calls, all about the same thing, wanting the same thing, assurances that only "they" can give you what you truly need, or desire. And then nothing!
I don't know about you, but I think us ladies need to hear a little less talk, and a lot more action. I get compliments that I'm beautiful, sexy, cute, so on and so forth, and comments of how this person or that person would like to meet me, but that all important question is never asked; "Would you like to meet with me?"
You get requests for conversations, and visits via cam, but is that all this is about, giving someone a quick thrill and spill, while we sit at home and chill? So I think you can see why I believe that the shoe is now on the other foot, that men have turned into the proverbial "cock tease", making promises and assurances, and even guarantees, but it just doesn't go anywhere, and nothing ever get delivered.
Is it too much to ask for, to have someone stand up and say "I want to meet you", and actually fulfill that promise? Whether it be a coffee at the local Starbucks, a drink at the local watering hole, a dinner at a nice restaurant, or a picnic in the park. It would be nice to actually have someone take some affirmative action, instead of being left at home and treated like one of those peep show girls.
***STEPS OFF THE SOAPBOX***
Just my POV....
