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DJ SirJim's blog: "Skin Creation"

created on 09/16/2006  |  http://fubar.com/skin-creation/b2354  |  6 followers
OMG, I am sorry to do this, but I am tired of the whinning and crying on here. This is strictly my oppinion and if you agree you can repost, if you do not, then please ignore. When I started on cherry I was naive and thought that when I would go to someone's page and rated ALL their pictures, added them as a fan, a friend, and left all the cherry love I could, that the favor would be returned. However I quickly learned that not everyone did this. I even went as far as posting things as stupid as I am going to remove you from my friend list unless... God what a fool I was. Since then I have came to the conclusion that I am a good person and will continue to do what is right no matter if it is returned or not. That is just life. Even though I make tons of skins for everyone to rip in tons of different themes (most of which I have no interest in but I know others do) I honestly do not expect everyone to take even a quarter of the time it took me to make the skin to go through my pictures and comment on them. For those of us that are honest and good, it may be a shock, but EVERY DAY, I will see at least 10 people who have visited my site and not left me a user comment. However, when I go back to their page, they are using one or more of my skins. I did the math and if everyone who ever ripped one of my skins left me 5 ratings on my photos and 5 comments, I would be at level 30 already. BUT, the reality is... that is not why I do it nor should be why anyone on Cherry does what they do. This is just a way to express yourself and makes some friends along the way. There are TONS of really cool people here who will actually leave messages to people on their friend lists whenever they are on, even if that is every day, every few days or once a month. They will stop by and see what is new and leave some point. I would love to add the names and links to the pages of the people thaqt are great. If you hear from me every day or few days, you know who you are... but you may not want your name in this post. But what I cannot stand to see is people crying about things like "Wah... someone rated me all ones", "Why are my photos not in the top ten", etc. etc. etc. I have seen that most of these posts are by people who I have accepted as friends and have rated and commented on all their pics but have yet to return the favor. My main feeling is that what goes around comes around. If you actually take the time to be a real person and get to know people, then their are no worries. If you are on here for yourself and your points, then you get what you deserve. Having said this, here is my promise to all my friends and the cool people of LC. 1) If you take the time to rate all my pics and comment along the way to let me know you were there, I WILL return the favor. If I do not do it that day, do not worry, I WILL do it. I think you rock and I want to see you level up. 2) If you are on my family list, I will visit your page and leave a message every day that I am on. You are a true friend and I have gotten to know you through chat either on here or pogo.com. Anything that you want or need from me is yours. You are very special and I enjoy hearing from you. 3) If you are not on my family list but do stop by every few days or so, I will ALWAYS do the same. Unfortunately Cherry only allows me so many spots on the family list. I would love to add you, and WILL when more spots open. It does not mean that you do not share a space in my heart. 4) If you are a friend that sends comments every once in awhile and you enter a contest, I will vote for you. If you are on my friend list and I have not heard from you since the last contest, well I may still be nice and vote for you, but that may be all. 5) No matter if I get any regognition for it or not, I will continue to make skins for everyone. I do not care if you even say hi when you rip them. I make them for you all and I hope you enjoy them. So forgive me, I am getting off my soapbox and will never say this again. Just please quit worrying about what everyone else does. Do things for yourself or do not do them at all. If you are worried about a stupid point system or worried about what others think, then you need to take time to reflect on who you are. I love you all and I hope that my true friends understand where I am coming from.
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