DrUKnowThat1Guy And Da Misses's blog: "My mom."

Well I went last week to start testing to donate a kidney to my mom. Unfortunately I was informed today that i was not going to be able to do it.. I am pretty devistated right now.. I was really wanting to help my mom out.. I only wish that things would have been different but unfortunately they werent.. I guess now we have to find somebody else or wait for somebody to pass away that is a match.. I hope that something good happens some time soon.. Well I love all my true fubar friends who have been there for me when i have needed U and I just wanted to let U all know.. Thanks for being there for me..

Well here is the latest update.. My mom started dialysis on Wednesday.. Although it has helped her to feel better it is a bad step in this whole kidney failure process.. One of my moms test came back "bad". Not sure what that means but they took her off one of her meds and they are gonna test her again here soon.. Hopefully we can get her approved to have the transplant soon.. I am just anxious to get to the point where I can go and test to donate my kindney.. We still dont have a guarentee that I can do it but I want to at least go do all the tests and hope that I can.. Well that is the latest.. So now we just wait and go through this dialysis process.. Which if we dont get to the transplant process is a perminant thing for the rest of her life.. I hope things work out.

Its not too much of an update but my mom is heading to mayoclinic on monday to begin the processes and the testing that needs to take place to figure out if I can dontate a kidney or not.. Then I guess I will be heading down there to take the tests I need to take.. Keep your fingers crossed and wish for the best for us..

OK so a little backround as to why I am making a blog about my mom.. She is a wonderful woman and has been there through a whole lot of shit I have had go on in my life.. She got very sick a few years back.. Kidney problems.. Over the time she has been sick she has been in and out of hospitals. She has fought the entire time and we have been by her side.. Well it is getting to where she is going to need a kidney transplant. And that is one of the scariest things we have had to deal with.. There are soo many things that we need to have happen.. Most improtant is finding a donor.. Well a couple of days ago I went to get blood tested to see if our blood types match.. It is the first step to being able to donate a kidney.. I guess somebody is looking over us cause I am the first person in the family to get tested and I am a match for her blood type.. Which means that I can more then likely donate my kidney to my mom.. So I am pretty psyched about that.. I am now just waiting to do the remaining tests so I can find out if I can give my mother a kidney or not.. I really hope that i can.. Cause after all that my mom has been through with me it would be the least I could do for her.. Well I will keep updating this blog as things progress.. Keep your fingers crossed for me.. Thanks everyone..