Lets see where to begin...all this in a nutshell. As crazy as things are lets go back way back.
Way back to a story when I knew this cat called slim and his love life and the story of his relationships of good and bad.
as crazy as it seems its all true minus the names and some stuff left out not to bore or over-excite
Once upon a time in a little suburb of Detroit City there was this cat..we will call him, IDK SLIM. Well Slim ended up hooking up with this lady at the time that he thought was a bombshell. We will call this bombshell FER for now. Now there was sort of a problem, he was 20 turning 21 and she was still in school and only 17. but he took a chance even though it could effect his work enviroment. they kept it undercover for a bit, due to other circumstances. Everything seemed to work out though and they were happy.
Well they spent alot of time together hard times and good, alot more good then bad. Well Slim decided to propose to this bombshell and spend rest of his life with her. WOW could things be so good. Then along came news that there was a tidy blessing in disguise coming. We will call this lil' tike Wolverine. Things could not of been better as said previous. Moved out together starting that long life and American Dream. who could want more, great job a happy relationship and a house to call HOME. This was all new to both Slim & FER but they were both willing to make it work. a little rushed but it could work.
Well something went sour. supposedly there was cheating involved but not quite sure, but if there was it wasnt on the end of Slim's but things were forgivable. Well they still split regardless. Well it was very hard on Slim. I mean hard he fell, it was like falling of a 20 story building and belly flopping on the concrete. I mean to the point he didnt think or want to love anyone again. This was also the first time he cried in approx 6 yrs. Well Time heals all wounds and that it did. Put it this way alot of hateful and mean things were done and said at this point from both ends. Shoot I even heard SLIM acted out because of being so heartbroken. What was he supposed to do, it was 4 yrs of wasted time in his eyes that he wanted every minute back if he could.
So whats a person to do he dates and falls on the rebound. thats exactley what SLIM did from what I gathered. He ended up hooking up with a few people here n there but never filled that void or hole so to speak. 1 of the ladies he hooked up with for the 1st time despite what FER or others seemed to think or believe, was a friend, that he ran into. So he did the hospitable thing and invited her n friends to a party. Him and this friend who was also on the rebound decided why not for shits n giggles, since everyone thought they did anyhow. Even though THEY NEVER DID AT THIS POINT. ( more bout this lady in chapter 2). He actually wanted her friend and vice versa. and they hooked up an a BET of "I BET YOU WONT DO IT, I BET YOU WONT DO IT" type thing. well they hooked up it was nice, but not what either of them wanted at the time. they were still the good friends as always. and it was a 1 time deal at this point a rebound and lonely kind of thing. basically 1 of those things that had to be done once if never done again.
He looked for a chance to open that door of salvation to get back in good graces, But found none. Slim & FER got together again briefly but all of a sudden it was off again. this was probally more crushing then the 1st time mainly cuz there was no reason cept to be used as a fluke. His hope soared high then fell rock bottom and had no reason why. Except he told a few friends that he was getting back together..He also found out a friend of his had hooked up with her. that was also crushing that goes back to the cheating, cuz never did he think that would happen nor did he ever do it to her. Well with this crushing blow he decided from a few friends Advice, test the waters. So guess what my friend SLIM did, exactley that. He had numerous encounters, still not finding the right one. He figured it was what they do to him is crush and break his heart, so why give them the chance. he will just date.
Well during this encounter he did find someone, but that someone had a boyfriend at the time. and they played the stupid game of cat n mouse.
Well Him and this lady that he played cat n mouse with finally hooked up after a long 3-4 yr interval of SLIM being single. This also happens to be the for girl mentioned earlier. They decided that hey if we can be friends why not be lovers. we will call this this piece of elegance MARIE. well Slim & Marie still played that game of together not together. but settled down finally.
Things seemed to be on an upswing. they both figured since the realtions that they had when they first encountered each other just as friends went sour maybe this was a sign of wolf in sheeps clothing. since both were accused of something that never occured. Funny I know, bet parties mentioned are laughing now and feel stupid cuz I can say they lost the 2 best things ever, works out in SLIM & MARIE's favor though.
Well they went together for a few years. Then they decided to be the knit package that everyone dreams about. Well they got engaged, and things could not be better. Even moved in together. Families accepting and making the steps toward life in bliss together. Well then they decided to split and Slim broke things off.
They decided to talk and still be together but not together. There was alot of activity of this. alot of heartaches n tears on both ends. But none-the-less they were still a couple.
They decided after the on and off again scenario, they were what they wanted. So they thought. She lived on her own he lived at his place. but most of time they were staying with each other at someones house.
They even moved in again for a 2nd time...that was a bad idea. Things were done but always forgiven. Why I'm not sure but they were I think it was a lonely and a friend thing more then anything cuz thats what was feared most was losing a friend of over 10 yrs at this point.
This Elegance meant the world to Slim in more ways then he could ever express. He was happy for most part. Well what he thought was happiness was just settling. The same went for Marie. during this stint of going back and forth and experimenting to put it gently. Things did not work out.
both sought after greener pastures. there was a tendecy of unfaithfullness like the DIANE LANE movie. and it wasnt so much on Slim's part so I heard. partially cuz Slim didnt want to commit for the reasons that later came true.
Marie ended up finding someone new and her and Slim decided to part ways. But they still are friends to this day even though there was alot of heartbreak in that aswell. Slim decided to give up on LOVE and decided to lead a life of solitude at this point.
Chapter 2 was short cuz really there isnt more details you need to know thats a different blog maybe.
Well during this time Slim decided that his first 2 loves ( you only get 3 great ones in life) had already came and gone like dust in the wind. he didnt want to even try a 3rd. since his hard was crushed from the 1st 2 why even open his heart to a 3rd to see this open all again. Funny how things work and when Love hits you it hits you. Well after a year or so of being alone and talking to different applicants, none made this cat happy.
Well one october day, he stumbled into this convo with this pure beauty and Goddess. her name was DALE. wow is all he could say. so he befriended her, just as that not thinking of anything more. mainly because the scenario didnt seem to fit his life. See Dale lived in another state as Slim. They had alot in common though and they talk for hours bout the rebound and tough relationships they had been in and out of. They hit it off but neither of them thought of anything more then that but converstation.
Slim and his babydoll Dale have visited each other a numerous times and met friends and family and both are accepting. its nice to see something good come to both these peoples lives and for them to move on. Basically this is Slim's 3rd love and last chance in his eyes. But he knows that this is the supreme goddess that will ever make him smile. its the essence of her voice and beauty that makes him work for what they can have together. He knows that it will happen and they will be a whole and all pieces of the puzzle with fit in place. March is coming and he will be settled and all steps lead to the mountains with no more hills to climb.
Well converstaions and hours later it turned into something. and glad it did. now both these people live with smiles on there faces with plans to make it work and be together intertwined as one. with little complications along the way they will be together. Slim and his goddess or Babydoll DALE have decided after over 1 yr of talking they would take they would take the next step and move together. they even discussed that "M" word being marriage...updates for that (july29,2009).
and boy are those the juicy details
Moral of this story with alot of the juicy details left out.....LADIES/GUYS wonder why people end up being PLAYAS the above will show you. Its usually because of broken hearts. but with broken hearts comes alot of misery. but in the end There is a soulmate that makes everyone happy, be lucky if you get to experience that.
People want to say stuff and accuse, thats fine. Want to get mad because someone found happiness. Well if you are the ONE that broke there HEART, well then dont get mad. they eventually have to find happiness, they cant leave there life on hold for you. YOU found happiness. then expect someone else to do the same, Such as SLIM DID. he found happiness not because he wanted to search for it, he had it twice before, but due to curcumstances. he had to look elsewhere and found it.
Dont be mad because someone like him found it, when you yourself had it. he was put in the position to go find it
names were changed and scenarios left out to protect innocence. if you feel offended or feel something is missing..guess what its the story of SLIM get your own story. and im sure more updates will come.