On November 27, my husband told me he had been having an affair with a c0-worker for 5 years. I trusted him with all that I am we have been married for 24 years this June.
I never had a reason not to trust him, yes he "worked alot" but he always had a pay stub to prove all the time spent away was working,by writing in his own time.
I feel like an idiot, for not knowing. To make matters worse she is pregnant. My husband is 41 and she is 43. I am trying to hold the marriage together but , he still does all her driving for her, and they work side by side everyday.
I can say this much it hurts worse than anything i have ever felt in my entire life.
No idea why i felt the need to post this here but oh well... why not ?