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Janey Godley's blog: "Janey Godley’s Blog"

created on 04/18/2009  |  http://fubar.com/janey-godleys-blog/b291379  |  2 followers

My Life and it is

 

 

I think am not a bad daughter, I try hard to make sure I get to see my dad and talk to him most days. He has been widowed for over a year now and he is a bit lost. Last week I popped into town, I had called dad but he wasn’t in, he goes out most days. Just as I walked down Buchanan street, I spotted him on a street bench and he was talking to a wee old woman.

 

They were nodding and chatting, they looked like strangers talking but still they were at ease with each other. As I approached him, my heart thudded as I thought “My God, he is so lonely he is talking to a strange wee lady, it’s my fault he has no one to speak to, I never visited him enough”

 

“Hi dad” I said and he got up laughing and said “this is my beautiful daughter, what a surprise, I didn’t know you were in the country”

My dad is used me not always being in Scotland, despite me telling him constantly my movements, he still gets surprised even when I land on his doorstep.

 

The wee woman smiled and got up saying goodbye, she made room for me to sit with him.

 

“You ok Da?” I asked him.

 

“Yes, I needed a wee rest, I was meeting up with my buddies earlier and fancied a wee coffee and sit down, the weather is good eh?” he answered.

 

“You are not terribly lonely are you?” I asked him nodding towards the wee lady who trotted off down the street.

He looked at me and said “I did speak to people before you were born, I know how to chat to folk, and no I am not that lonely I have taken to harassing pensioners”

 

I laughed and he laughed and we sat there in the street catching up with each other. I miss him and worry terrible that I am not with him enough or doing enough. He has an adorable step daughter who visits him and looks after his shopping needs. I am grateful to her beyond belief.

 

“Are you still a comedian?” he asked me, (he does this all the time, it’s our private joke)

“Yes, I am and are you still an old man obsessed with wheelie bins?” I replied.

 

“Aye I am” he sniggered.

 

Today I called him and we chatted again. I thought what it would be like not to be able to see him in the street of be able to call him up. I think about him all alone in his house or sitting in the dark missing my step mum and I get so upset. I hope I am a good daughter, I hope he doesn’t think I have no time for him in my busy life.

 

I was once told that the best thing you can give an elderly relative is your time, they just want some of your time to spend it with you.

 

I am lucky I have a good dad and am going to see him tomorrow.

 

Meanwhile life is consumed by all things Edinburgh Fringe…getting posters made, hiring a flyering team and making sure all is well with my to-do list. I dream about the to-do list as husband makes me add and amend it constantly. His Aspergers makes him wake up at 5am and say “Did you write down that thing I told you to” and I stare at him in the dark and say “What thing?” and then he starts switching on lights and fumbling with a pen. Yes, my life is truly awesome.

 

Am off to London this weekend to work and to catch up with pals, if you fancy a peek at my show listings for Edinburgh here are the links.

 

The Godley Hour At: http://www.pleasance.co.uk/edinburgh/events/the-godley-hour

 

Tall Storrie Wee Godley At: http://www.pleasance.co.uk/edinburgh/events/tall-storrie-wee-godley

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