andresbity's blog: "Gothic Female Seeking"

I mentioned on my page that I would be back to start my blog today, so here I am :)

Let me start off by saying that if you are a straight male looking to get with me get the Hell lost. Been there, done that, wrote the damn book. Just recently I lost the love of my life when he left me. I was hurt in more ways then a woman should be. So, therefore, I am out of the game looking for straight men. 

What I am looking for is a bisexual or lesbian female to have a relationship with. I messed around some with my sexuality when I was young, but I am ready to take that leap and look for the right female(s). Yes, I said females, because I am poly. Definitely I want a life long partner who will be the main one, but I will bring in and play with other females. Now, let me tell you what I am looking for. I want a female who is between the ages of 25 and 50, yes I can be a cougar at times. I like them young sometimes, what can I say. But not to young either. No teens trying to add me for more than friends as I am not into that. I want a female who is gothic, pagan and vampiric, or at least open minded to that sort of life. No exceptions to that rule. I can be quite dark, morbid and creepy at times, as you can see by my main profile. You must be open to marijuana because I do use it for pain, and plus i like getting high, simple as that. If you want to be with me you have ot be able to hang out with my friends. I am submissive by nature. I was a 24/7 to the Master I lost, but I will not be that way again. Nor am I a Domme/Mistress. Nor am I looking for a Mistress. But yes, I am into kinky things and you must be too. There will be a lot of it in the house. 

Socially I am an introvert, which means that I prefer quiet secluded areas, not extremely large crowds. Although I do like going to night clubs and social gatherings that deal with gothic, pagan, vampiric, and bdsm, so expect it. I also tend to be empathic and highly sensitive. 

I will need a female who is assured of herself and strong in nature. As there will be times that the emotion of heartbreak will overcome me, and will need a gentle hand to remind me that as my partner you are there. There are times I break down into tears. Be assured that my life has been messy. No, I am not saying this to scare anyone away, just the opposite. I want to start out completely honest. I will not make promises I cannot keep. I cannot promise eternal love, as that was stolen from me long ago. What I can promise is the hear and now. So if you fit this description, and have read, my profile please hit me up. 

As a side note: any members of the LGBTQ, gothic, vampiric, pagan, bdsm and marijuana community can add me as a friend.