Desert Angel Lisa Happily taken and RL G...'s blog: "MY FEELINGS"

bits of advise that might be helpful for those that dont understand internet is internet.. 1) If its too good to be true it probably is, (*do your research and find the truth before you step into something that is going to take your heart outta your chest or come back to bite you in the ass*) 2) Fighting on the internet is like pissing in a pair of black pants, it might make you feel good but most people arent gonna notice ( well they might but how lame can you get) 3)D.T.A. ( Dont trust anyone) not all but a good percentage of people asking you extreamely personal questions are one of two things, trouble makers in the making, or some kinda freak that is going to be stalking you all over the place. beware!!! 4)Don't give in to the stupidity of others, ( all its going to do is aggravate you and they are getting off on the fact they pissed you off. There are more important things, real things going on in life than what happens on a screen) 5) chat rooms.... good lord they are chat rooms, people use those rooms to A) talk about everyday life B)heres a novel idea ACTUALLY discuss a topic..surely you jest, intelligence be predominant.. nahhh .. thus why I hide out in a chat room few use anymore. just those of you that know where I go *wink*( gotta love the fact we have a quiet place) Im not saying that the internet and chatting is a bad thing. there are alot of good things that come of it. I met the man I have waited a life time for online, Love him deeply and he knows this. I have also made alot of great friends and helped them through some rough shit, and in the process grew myself. Its all in how you take things. Be wise and pick your battles carefully. Know whom your talking to before you just hop in. Unless your someone that throws caution to the wind then its all on you. Ultimately just have fun, make friends and dont take anything to seriously. There's always going to be someone trying to stir the pot, I can tell you this.. eventually what comes around goes around...The almighty never takes his eyes off what is going on. Remember that..

MY FEELINGS ON LOVE HERE ARE A FEW THOUGTHS OF MINE, I SEEN TO WRITE ALOT WHEN I AM ALONE, FEELINGS THAT FLOW OUT OF ME. I HOPE YOU ENJOY. Sooner or later we begin to understand that love is more than verses on valentines and romance in the movies. We begin to know that love is here and now, real and true, the most important thing in our lives. For love is the creator of our favourite memories and the foundation of our fondest dreams. Love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in even the most unlikely of places. And this radiance that never fades, this mysterious and magical joy, is the greatest treasure of all - one known only by those who love. When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity - in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits - islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides "The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being." "When two hearts are meant for each other, no distance is so far, no time is so long, and no other love can break them apart."

I'ts strange and a bit odd how ppl love and want to be loved. i guess if you really knew me you would understand. "I love you" is a powerful statement, and although i love so many ppl, i cant say that they really truely love me in return. Now they say they do for one reason or another, weather it be by their true friendship to me or to gain something through selfish reasons. All in all i believe ppl should be rather careful when using the phrase "I Love You." I've learned so many things by flinging that phrase around, i've learned that some ppl in my life honestly mean what they say, weather on the internet or not. But there are ppl in my life, past and present who have said " I Love You" and never understood the depts of the phrase. To me..the phrase is deep, to say it means i feel it in my soul. to love, is to give my heart, my passion and my life to another. To love with your heart is one thing, but to have someone touch your soul is truely different. Love comes at you sometimes out of nowhere, and when you realize it, you seem truely blessed. There is a person in my life i can say "I love with my soul". This person has given me so much joy, and i am deeply blessed that i have that love...So if i can say anything, i'll tell you all be mindful of the way you say "I love you" its a beautiful phrase and needs to be understood.