OK im on a ranting rampage this morning......
Well i go to visit my grandmother while im waiting on the time to come to take my son to headstart. And what do you know she starts gripping and complaining about how david does. Says he isnt trying to work and talks about how he is not talkitive. Well i kept telling her that it was nothing like she was saying it was and she said she was sorry that me and her had got to this point that i would defend david why wouldnt i defend him against her when she has no idea what she is talking about. She acts like his is worthless and called him sorry. He works the only job there is around here and is going to the unemployment office every chance he gets to put in more applications. He does what he can to help me with MY kids and does alot to help with our new baby. She talks about how he wont put on his seatbelt in her van (i think he should) and he leaves spit cans sitting around her house(i gave her props for that also) but i tell him all the time he needs to put on his seatbelt and that he needs to pick up his cans when he is done with them and not leave them sitting around up there. But she says and complains about everything anyone does yet she is suppose to be a christian. Like for instance my uncle who is a preacher goes down to his exes house and sits and talks to her they have a daughter together and all so i see no wrong in it as long as they arent doing anything but no mama sits and bitches about that too (sorry about my wording) i however can see a point to what he does because like him i am going through the divorce process and its hard to have something to do with the kids without the ex being part of that only i have my kids and my uncle dont and he only gets her for like one night so yeah i can see him going down there and spending time with his child. Anyways back to my situation. Why cant she just say what she knows to be true and leave the rest alone. I will tell you why because she is old and has no life of her own so she thinks she has to butt into everyone elses life. Am i wrong to be so pissed about this? I dont think i am. I think she should keep out of everyones business when it doesnt concern her. The way i see it she has no right to call any "sorry" when she cant see how they are trying just pisses me off that she does people that way. David is doing the best he can seeing as how he left his home where he knew where jobs were to come to be with me and his baby now he is looking for a new job to help me with two kids are arent his plus the one that is his. Where does she get off putting someone down like that anyways. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR....If i am wrong then tell me but hell i hear her bitching like this all the time. Enough is enough.
