is it wrong to love a man who u have spent the last 16 yrs of your life with thru thick an thin an even abuse to want him back after he has left me for another woman an has done nothing but say an do hateful things to me for i believe people change i gave him my whole life an also gave him 9 beautiful kids i dont know an i dont understand why he would just walk away an not look back like we never even exsisted to him to be with a woman who he dated in high school over 20 yrs ago someone please tell me am i wrong to want him back or right for moving on with my life for everything in my life seems to be like a big massive nightmare of nothing but hurt pain an betrayel